"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
False Compliments.
- Thread starter Adrian
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
WaterTiger
Master Don Juan
2xp
Don Juan
lol . this is funny. it looks like adrian is learning life and just discovered that there are girls out there. look at his other post about girls not saying goodbye or other matters.WELCOME TO PLANET EARTH. and welcome to adulthood
yeah, i know, i don't help and i am a jerk
ok, i have one advice tough : do the bootcamp (look at the DJ BIBLE or use the search feature) , it will force you to socialize. i think you'll be shot down many many times till you'll cry like a baby but at least you'll learn fast.
Slimijs
Senior Don Juan
To tell the truth, I don't give a **** about any compliment a girl tells me. I consider them all crap. But some of my afc friends, just love when a girl gives them one of them.
For instance, once at a bar I was chillin with a girl and 4 of my friends. I wasn't intrested in the girl, so I didn't really give a crap, about what she thinks. Then suddenly she starts telling us who she would like and wouldn't like to date. The two of my afc friends were considered nice and a great date. But as you all suspected none of them have a gf at the moment.