SilverToungue
Don Juan
Okay I'll make this brief as possible. I'm a 40 year old, not bad looking divorced man. Took me a while to get my head together after I split up with my ex. but several months ago I found my stride, and was pulling/meeting several girls a week.
Of these girls started seeing a few of them; one of them an incredibly attractive slightly older woman. She dresses well, holds herself well and has every man from 19 - 80 staring at her, every time she walks into a bar. She has dated various famous people and lots of millionaires but we really hit it off.
We started seeing each other casually, and both said we don't do relationships. However, after about 6 weeks I started to go all Beta and fell for her. I knew she was a female alpha and that we both dated (and slept with) other people. But a combination of her still seeing her ex and me falling for her meant the sexual side of things fell away.
I still see her once or twice a week, and we will drink wine, cook food, laugh, and be very open with each other - but the sexual side seems to have disappeared. She came to me the other night after a business meeting in a tight black dress, high heels and stockings and I thought WOW, but making a move just seemed impossible, but the first night I met her it was easy.
Is there a way out of the friend zone, or should I keep enjoying her company. And if I do will it increase my SMV or just mean I'll compare every other woman too her.
TL;DR Help me out of the friend zone brother.
Of these girls started seeing a few of them; one of them an incredibly attractive slightly older woman. She dresses well, holds herself well and has every man from 19 - 80 staring at her, every time she walks into a bar. She has dated various famous people and lots of millionaires but we really hit it off.
We started seeing each other casually, and both said we don't do relationships. However, after about 6 weeks I started to go all Beta and fell for her. I knew she was a female alpha and that we both dated (and slept with) other people. But a combination of her still seeing her ex and me falling for her meant the sexual side of things fell away.
I still see her once or twice a week, and we will drink wine, cook food, laugh, and be very open with each other - but the sexual side seems to have disappeared. She came to me the other night after a business meeting in a tight black dress, high heels and stockings and I thought WOW, but making a move just seemed impossible, but the first night I met her it was easy.
Is there a way out of the friend zone, or should I keep enjoying her company. And if I do will it increase my SMV or just mean I'll compare every other woman too her.
TL;DR Help me out of the friend zone brother.
