"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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iight fellas here goes. I finally got the stones to talk to this broad in one of my college classes. She seemed interested so I asked for her number. Called the number and an answering machine picked up (probably her friends cell #). My question is why do broads waste time giving fake numbers when they can just say not to call them. Also, didn't see realize I am going to see her for the next 3 months ? lol. Anyway, how should I handle this situation ?, never had it happen to me before.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Simply as she is writing down her number ask her if it's a number she picks up... watch her expression. If she says it isn't or makes a face like it isn't. Say. "Write your real number, don't worry I'll only call you 9 times a day"

or something like that... someone said that before, I've found it useful.
 

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Originally posted by CapiCrimini
Simply as she is writing down her number ask her if it's a number she picks up... watch her expression. If she says it isn't or makes a face like it isn't. Say. "Write your real number, don't worry I'll only call you 9 times a day"

or something like that... someone said that before, I've found it useful.
I think David DeAngelo said that.

Give her your new email address "instead":

[email protected]

Try emailing that
umm what is that email? Does it sign you up for loads of spam or something?
 

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Moved to Don Juan Discussion.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I think David DeAngelo said that.
i looked it up... Actually it's from Speed Seduction.
 

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Originally posted by CapiCrimini
i looked it up... Actually it's from Speed Seduction.
Haha, that David DeAngelo. He for sure stole that line word for word. It was either in his eBook or CD/DVD series.

Gotta love that Dave guy.
 

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Originally posted by Bronxtal112
iight fellas here goes. I finally got the stones to talk to this broad in one of my college classes. She seemed interested so I asked for her number. Called the number and an answering machine picked up (probably her friends cell #). My question is why do broads waste time giving fake numbers when they can just say not to call them. Also, didn't see realize I am going to see her for the next 3 months ? lol. Anyway, how should I handle this situation ?, never had it happen to me before.
Does she have a room mate. If she does it could be the right number, but it's her room mates answering machine, and she doesn't have her name on it. I've got a couple of girl friends who do that
 

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Originally posted by cannibustacap

umm what is that email? Does it sign you up for loads of spam or something?
Email it and find out!
 

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I was at this party saturday, and it was this cutie there, by far the cutiest girl there, and somehow we started talking. By the end of the night I we were dancing together, at a football game mind you, and she had agreed to come up to my apartment. She forgot her mom was picking her up so she couldnt' come up, but I got her phone number, and I tried to call her yesterday, and it was fake.

Now, it could be that I was too plastered to write the number down right or to check for that matter, or that she was too drunk to give me ther ight number, because she was digging me without question, but it still sucks to some degree.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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This tip has been posted before, but it works quite well:

Test for a fake number.

Upon getting the digits, you can probe for a fake number by doing the following (suppose the # given was 202-554-8789)

1. Read the # back to her, purposely misquoting one or more
digits (i.e. You: "Ok, 202-555-8789?").

2. Wait for correction.
-If she corrects you, the likelihood that you've gotten the right
number is pretty high. If not, you know you've encountered a
stroker.

If done in a club, chances are it will be dark, so you won't look foolish for misreading the number. If not, you can always squint or play it off somehow.

This works.
 
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