"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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iight fellas here goes. I finally got the stones to talk to this broad in one of my college classes. She seemed interested so I asked for her number. Called the number and an answering machine picked up (probably her friends cell #). My question is why do broads waste time giving fake numbers when they can just say not to call them. Also, didn't see realize I am going to see her for the next 3 months ? lol. Anyway, how should I handle this situation ?, never had it happen to me before.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Simply as she is writing down her number ask her if it's a number she picks up... watch her expression. If she says it isn't or makes a face like it isn't. Say. "Write your real number, don't worry I'll only call you 9 times a day"

or something like that... someone said that before, I've found it useful.
 

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Originally posted by CapiCrimini
Simply as she is writing down her number ask her if it's a number she picks up... watch her expression. If she says it isn't or makes a face like it isn't. Say. "Write your real number, don't worry I'll only call you 9 times a day"

or something like that... someone said that before, I've found it useful.
I think David DeAngelo said that.

Give her your new email address "instead":

[email protected]

Try emailing that
umm what is that email? Does it sign you up for loads of spam or something?
 

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Moved to Don Juan Discussion.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I think David DeAngelo said that.
i looked it up... Actually it's from Speed Seduction.
 

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Originally posted by CapiCrimini
i looked it up... Actually it's from Speed Seduction.
Haha, that David DeAngelo. He for sure stole that line word for word. It was either in his eBook or CD/DVD series.

Gotta love that Dave guy.
 

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Originally posted by Bronxtal112
iight fellas here goes. I finally got the stones to talk to this broad in one of my college classes. She seemed interested so I asked for her number. Called the number and an answering machine picked up (probably her friends cell #). My question is why do broads waste time giving fake numbers when they can just say not to call them. Also, didn't see realize I am going to see her for the next 3 months ? lol. Anyway, how should I handle this situation ?, never had it happen to me before.
Does she have a room mate. If she does it could be the right number, but it's her room mates answering machine, and she doesn't have her name on it. I've got a couple of girl friends who do that
 

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Originally posted by cannibustacap

umm what is that email? Does it sign you up for loads of spam or something?
Email it and find out!
 

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I was at this party saturday, and it was this cutie there, by far the cutiest girl there, and somehow we started talking. By the end of the night I we were dancing together, at a football game mind you, and she had agreed to come up to my apartment. She forgot her mom was picking her up so she couldnt' come up, but I got her phone number, and I tried to call her yesterday, and it was fake.

Now, it could be that I was too plastered to write the number down right or to check for that matter, or that she was too drunk to give me ther ight number, because she was digging me without question, but it still sucks to some degree.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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This tip has been posted before, but it works quite well:

Test for a fake number.

Upon getting the digits, you can probe for a fake number by doing the following (suppose the # given was 202-554-8789)

1. Read the # back to her, purposely misquoting one or more
digits (i.e. You: "Ok, 202-555-8789?").

2. Wait for correction.
-If she corrects you, the likelihood that you've gotten the right
number is pretty high. If not, you know you've encountered a
stroker.

If done in a club, chances are it will be dark, so you won't look foolish for misreading the number. If not, you can always squint or play it off somehow.

This works.
 
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