"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Fake Tinder profile similarities

johntab67

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I'm relatively new to Tinder. I have my age settings set fairly broad (24-42) and at 47 the only likes I seem to get are 24 year olds. Besides their age, each has 3 profile photos and a very brief maybe dozen word bio, they include words like cinema instead of movies, and the names seem weird. Inevitably, they message first. In the end they are either promoting webcam sex or some sort of verification scam to get your credit card number.

I'm sure I am not the only who has had this happen to them.

What do you look for when screening out the fakes?

I look for:
more than 3 photos
some thought put into description
something in the photo that looks like it could have been taken in your locale
don't look overly produced

any others?

Besides the obvious promoters, some of these are bound to be bots. The only purpose I can think of for their existence is to keep you interested in coming back.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Slash Dolo

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No bio/bad grammar bio/only three pictures/generic hot girl vibe, basically.
 
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