"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Fake Phone Number?

ChocolateVanilla

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Well, for the first time, I believe I got a fake phone number. Normally, I don't even ask unless I get high signs of interest so the numbers I've gotten so far are real. But interestingly enough, this girl I met gave me high interest signs and then ends up giving me a fake. I ended up calling the number back last night and the person on the other end didn't know what I was talking about so I hung up. So what exactly is the best way to avoid getting these fake phone numbers? And why not just say no instead of giving a fake?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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kdnash82

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I've seen something on here about looking at the number and calling back the wrong last 4 digits. For example a girl puts her number in your phone.

Me: Alright Cindy, I think I got you. 5049 (when the number actually reads 4190)
Her: yep... that's it.
Me: *throws the phone at her forehead* YOU LYING STUPID BIT&CH!!! *picks up phone and walks away calmly*
 

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When she gives you the #, enter it in your cell phone right in front of her then tell her you are going to call it so that she has your number also. that's the only way I know to catch it on the spot.
 

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I've seen something on here about looking at the number and calling back the wrong last 4 digits. For example a girl puts her number in your phone.

Me: Alright Cindy, I think I got you. 5049 (when the number actually reads 4190)
Her: yep... that's it.
Me: *throws the phone at her forehead* YOU LYING STUPID BIT&CH!!! *picks up phone and walks away calmly*
Ahh yes, where's the Cell Phone Abuse Advocates?
 

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Ace_McGregor said:
When she gives you the #, enter it in your cell phone right in front of her then tell her you are going to call it so that she has your number also. that's the only way I know to catch it on the spot.
thats the best way i know. if she gives you the house number than just call as soon as you walk away.

either way there no point in worrying about a fake number. you won't mess with a girl thats not adult enough to just say shes not iterested and walk away.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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betterthandead

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Cause they're trying to be polite. No number or a fake number = Not interested. And there's nothing wrong with girls not being that interested in you.

ChocolateVanilla said:
So what exactly is the best way to avoid getting these fake phone numbers? And why not just say no instead of giving a fake?
 

Someone Much cooler

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sometimes i call it, being polite would be we can be friends but i really don't like giving my # out to people i don't know. How would they feel if they asked you for your # and you gave em a fake?
 

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inspector said:
thats the best way i know. if she gives you the house number than just call as soon as you walk away.

either way there no point in worrying about a fake number. you won't mess with a girl thats not adult enough to just say shes not iterested and walk away.
That's good, and the repeating digits idea sounds good too, I'll try it out next time I get suspicious of a number being fake.

But yeah, they should just say no, giving out a fake and then calling some stranger at a bad time isn't exactly being "polite".
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Moved to Discussion forum.

To OP:

Don't sweat it mate. We all get fake phone numbers sooner or later. Some girls fake interest level, so if you gauge her as "ready" and go for the number or venue change, they'll either flake or passively reject you. Chicks hate direct confrontation, and would rather give you a fake number and subtly reject you than reject you upfront.

A good tactic that I use is call them right there. Store their number on your cell and give it a test ring infront of her. It can also be used for flirting if you do it with the right frame.

Cheers
 

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Memorize the number. Then burn it with a lighter in front of the chic. If she asks: Why? Dial the number. If you get her phone, cool tell her you burned it in to your're mind as to not forget. If its a fake, fvck it she won't care, and neither should you:moon::down: . But only do this in front of her, when you have access to a phone readily available, and you are not too jacked up on(enter poison here)to remember the number!

See, I dont sweat these hoes, I keep em in flavors like Timbos' and Girbos!!
-Biggie-
Come come now... who else???
:yes: :rock:
 

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A fake is a fake. It's non-interest. Next.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I got this from David DeAngelo. First ask her e-mail. Then tell her to put her number in there too. Then ask if that number is real.


It's all part of seduction. I don't question it.
 

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I dont get you people.

If she gave you a fake number, shes not into you, move on. What are you possibly going to achieve "catching" her giving you a fake number and get the real one instead?
 

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I got a fake #, saw the girl again, and spilled a drink on her for that bullsh*t. Make the b***h dial your cell phone or walk away all together. I've had to slap a b***h once for that as well. I show women that I don't play. Be for real or get the f**k out of my face! If not, I'll help you get the f**k out of my face! And it ain't pretty!

If I was a Pikachu, Ooh, God knows how many times I'd use a thunderbolt attack on b***hes like that!
 

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nismo-4 said:
I got a fake #, saw the girl again, and spilled a drink on her for that bullsh*t. Make the b***h dial your cell phone or walk away all together. I've had to slap a b***h once for that as well. I show women that I don't play. Be for real or get the f**k out of my face! If not, I'll help you get the f**k out of my face! And it ain't pretty!

If I was a Pikachu, Ooh, God knows how many times I'd use a thunderbolt attack on b***hes like that!
You don't think you are over-reacting a little by slapping and spilling drinks over the girls?
Get you act together man, you are acting like a Pikachu!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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