"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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They hurt, especially if there was good IOIs and everything. I'm feeling kind of hurt and down about it, but I guess its just something I need to toughen up to.

Oh well.

I think I built this up in my head for a while. I was keeping busy for a few days with different things, meant to call her, but put it off, so I was thinking about it for a few days. So bigger let down then I was expecting.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You always say let me call you now to make sure I got it right.

Sometimes when I meet a real sleaze I hand out my exs number who was more interested in getting my mate pauls c0ck up his bum, n thought I wouldn't find out.
 
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To the OP

First off, you are taking action - you are trying to get girls' numbers.

That is to be commended

Rejection hurts - but you get used to it. There is an element of randomness and besides, you are not every girl's type and vice-versa, not every girl is your style.

But think of this as a *test* of your masculinity - can you continue to believe in your high value despite the fact that a girl just rejected you? Think long and hard about that.

I remember once I had an awesome conversation with this girl, and she really liked me, I could see it in her eyes. I got her number. I called her and set up an outing, she said yes. Then she bails on me at the last minute.

I was shocked, then very annoyed, that definitely stung.

In the end, I still love being a man even though you have to deal with rejections - you get to make moves on girls - whereas girls just have to sit there and wait and hope a guy makes a move on them.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I used to get those at the beginning of my game until I device a strategy to have fake-number free, haha. You'd know if a girl/woman gives a fake number. The way to know is she will ensure that you have the correct number by repeating the number one digit at a time after giving it to you, yes including the area code.
If you're not sure on the authenticity of the number, simply say "let me call you so you have my number as well." Don't wait for her to respond. If it is a fake number, she'll try to give you some damn excuse. Just tell her "good bye." and leave.
 
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Ive never gotten a fake number in my life.


The way you avoid getting fake numbers is tell her to take out her phone and call your number right then and there...
 
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J Roc said:
Ive never gotten a fake number in my life.


The way you avoid getting fake numbers is tell her to take out her phone and call your number right then and there...
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Exactly. :up: I do this all the time, it never fails (I can also call the number she is telling me and I'll see if her phone rings or not).
 
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scrouds said:
They hurt, especially if there was good IOIs and everything. I'm feeling kind of hurt and down about it, but I guess its just something I need to toughen up to.

Oh well.

I think I built this up in my head for a while. I was keeping busy for a few days with different things, meant to call her, but put it off, so I was thinking about it for a few days. So bigger let down then I was expecting.
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I like this checking out the number stuff. I know i've grabbed a chick's phone before and dialed up my number, that worked good. I have a feeling, like Trader's experience, that she would have flaked not committed if i got the right number anyways.

Its just hard, there were some good signs she was really in to me, so i guess it caught me by surprise. Guess you never really know. Trader, I can continue. I didn't take this as an ego blow, i was more just pissed. Stung was/is totally the right word to describe it.

One of the bigger positives here is the idea of spinning plates. So far I'm spinning one, and working on adding at least a second. Its a totally different dynamic, and makes rejection easier, since if you want some, you can go get it.
 
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J Roc said:
Ive never gotten a fake number in my life.


The way you avoid getting fake numbers is tell her to take out her phone and call your number right then and there...
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And that's all there is to it! Case closed!:up: ;)
 
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A real number that does not lead anywhere is just as bad, maybe worse, than a fake number. At least you know from the get-go she's not interested rather than getting strung along over the phone or on dates.

I know it sucks to get rejected/blown-off but trust me it happens to you enough times eventually you get used to it
 
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