"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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fake laughing....do you do it?

AcknowledgeDaRep

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If someone makes a joke, do you feel the obligation to throw in a fake chuckle? I often do, but it feels fake and approval seeking. Particularly if a girl makes a joke with you, do you fake laugh if it's not funny? Quite often I'll just smirk, but sometimes the girl wants that "fake laugh" and feels uncomfortable if you don't give it to her.

What do you guys think?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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SamePendo

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As c&f, yes.

"Any more veeeery, veeeery funny joke?"
 

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if they are telling a joke it is either funny/stupid/complicated... if its funny ill laugh, if its stupid I look at the person who told it like wtf... and if its to complicated that I cant understand it, it is more than likely a stupid joke... I am not a dumbass
 

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yeah i do it, but i try to make it sound as real as possible

can always tell though, by how thier face goes straight back into netural after 2 seconds
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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i never laugh
 

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bullmoose - in my official threa i posted some joke for you, before the LTR subject. i hope you will enjoy tips and find them usefull. pzz mate
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Some people hate fake laughing. It seems sort of rude if you show absolutely NO HUMOR to a joke. I like to add to the topic, just so there won't be that odd silence.
random example

She: "Doesn't that guy with the mohawk look like a rooster? Hahaha!" (Obviously not funny)
Me: That's a very mean thing to say about roosters. (She starts cracking up)

Notice in the example you're not laughing at the joke but you're still being fun. And you don't have to be an ass and say "Not funny!"
 

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fake chuckles have to go. i realized i had a habit of doing this and it makes you look dorky when you give courtesy chuckles. all you have to do is give a sly grin and that'll suffice. look at all the alpha male/cool characters in the movies. they never give courtesy chuckles.
 

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Originally posted by john_1234
fake chuckles have to go. i realized i had a habit of doing this and it makes you look dorky when you give courtesy chuckles. all you have to do is give a sly grin and that'll suffice. look at all the alpha male/cool characters in the movies. they never give courtesy chuckles.
Oh damn, why did you have to say this? Watch the next "article" on the SS homepage be . . . "Does John Wayne give courtesy chuckles?"
 
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