Met this girl a few weeks back at a bar and got her phone number. I called her later that week and met her at a bar on a Friday night and ended up making out with her. OK, so throughout the week we are both online at times during work and I will IM her (maybe sometimes too much). So again, Friday rolls around and is going to go to the bars with some friends. She calls me that night (I'm already at a bar with a few friends) and tells me where she is- and that she doesn't want to go anywhere else because her friends want to stay there. At this point I should have said in return "ok, have fun, talk to you later" instead, me and a friend took a cab to where she was. However, we were unable to get into the club. Then i talk to her the following day and she seems uninterested. SO, I figure to not talk to her nearly as much and show her that I have a life outside of her/I'm in demand et c. I havent talked to her since saturday (its wednesday now), should I wait any longer to talk to her again? how much longer?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
failure lead to success?
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