Met this girl a few weeks back at a bar and got her phone number. I called her later that week and met her at a bar on a Friday night and ended up making out with her. OK, so throughout the week we are both online at times during work and I will IM her (maybe sometimes too much). So again, Friday rolls around and is going to go to the bars with some friends. She calls me that night (I'm already at a bar with a few friends) and tells me where she is- and that she doesn't want to go anywhere else because her friends want to stay there. At this point I should have said in return "ok, have fun, talk to you later" instead, me and a friend took a cab to where she was. However, we were unable to get into the club. Then i talk to her the following day and she seems uninterested. SO, I figure to not talk to her nearly as much and show her that I have a life outside of her/I'm in demand et c. I havent talked to her since saturday (its wednesday now), should I wait any longer to talk to her again? how much longer?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
failure lead to success?
- Thread starter alevy101
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