"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Failing two classes

wootapotky

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This isn't a thread on how to pass classes but a thread on the ramifications of failing two classes in college. I fully admit that I was being a dumbass this semester since I've gone to a total of 4 classes in one of my courses and that I've only turned in 5 hw assignments out of about 20 and skipped a 25 point quiz in the other course. Actually it's still possible for me to fail a thiird course but I don't really think I will, but at the same time I wouldn't be surprised. Realistically I'm looking at about a 1.7 to 2.0 semester gpa and overall gpa of around 2.9.

At my uni you can repeat lower division courses and they will only count the higher grade on your gpa so in terms of gpa it's as if you never failed. But the failed courses still go on my transcript and that's more what I was worried about. Would future employers see that transcript and if they do and from now on out I get a 4.0 would they even care? Basically these will be the only classes I've ever failed, and in terms of my learning growth may actually help in the long run since it's actually making me care about my grades and learning. But future employers may not care about that. So how screwed long-term am I?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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doctoroxygen

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I wouldn't worry about it as much as it sounds like you're doing. Most employers/grad schools look at you holistically, i.e. how you grew as a student, rather than overall. You should be fine, just work hard from now on.
 

Adone

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doctoroxygen said:
I wouldn't worry about it as much as it sounds like you're doing. Most employers/grad schools look at you holistically, i.e. how you grew as a student, rather than overall. You should be fine, just work hard from now on.

Actually when you apply for really high positions when you are just out of UNI, some major employers will turn out people who "let themselves relax" some time during their scholastic career. But it's pretty uncommon, they usually look at the overall GPA.
 
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