"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Gf texted:
GF: Move ur bday plz as its very inconvenient
ME: Good
GF: Nope its terrible. May just accidently forget it
ME: Not convinced
-next message instantly replied, obvious **** test-
GF: Not trying to convince u
3 hrs later as was at work after attempted to turn it around with next text
ME: Gd cos i like the date
GF: Weirdo

NC initiated to regain some ground. BUT i have already planned to see her on a day, and so will av to be the first to initiate what time in the day im picking her up.

Any advice how to salvage, as me continuing NC will make me look butt hurt if i just ignore the plan made to pick her up, from wot i can see its a lose lose situation now
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Warrior74 said:
Wait,

She asked you to move your birthday? wut?
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Shes joking obviously, she set up an event and it falls on a day before my bday
 
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PLAYED said:
Gf texted:
GF: Move ur bday plz as its very inconvenient
ME: Good
GF: Nope its terrible. May just accidently forget it
ME: Not convinced
-next message instantly replied, obvious **** test-
GF: Not trying to convince u
3 hrs later as was at work after attempted to turn it around with next text
ME: Gd cos i like the date
GF: Weirdo

NC initiated to regain some ground. BUT i have already planned to see her on a day, and so will av to be the first to initiate what time in the day im picking her up.

Any advice how to salvage, as me continuing NC will make me look butt hurt if i just ignore the plan made to pick her up, from wot i can see its a lose lose situation now
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What were you trying to turn around?

GF: Move ur bday plz as its very inconvenient
ME: Good
GF: Nope its terrible. May just accidently forget it
ME: Not convinced
-next message instantly replied, obvious **** test-
GF: Not trying to convince u

That's perfect. Just leave it at that. She offers shiit test, you deny offhandly with "not convinced" like a boss. End of conversation


Then for some damn odd reason, you text her 3 hrs later telling her you've been thinking about it for all this time. Instant fail. SHe calls you a weirdo for bringing up something that you already closed out 3 hrs ago.

Sage advice: Don't contact her if you don't have anything to say. If you have something to say, say it. Now move this shiit to the middle school forum.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Bleh--what is this sh1t test you are talking about? Sounds more like a crazy immature b1tch who is telling you to 'move your birthday?'. I don't get that joke--sounds just like a little bratty girl to me.
 
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Wtf? Did you not like the answers in the other forum? Why double post?
 
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