"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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War Against Betaism

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No not me, I was at a restaurant where almost all of the waiters are teenagers. Actually, all of the waiters are teenagers or are at least under 22. I was sitting at a table and then at the table across mine one of the waiters attends to the customers and she asks "Can I help you guys?" She wasn't really all that but she was cute, fvckable at least. They looked at her with this ****y look and said "I dunno, can you?" she rolled her eyes and said "Lame!" then left. They had this shocked face on them, I couldn't help but laugh. Just wanted to share that.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Uh okay? I could say that but I wouldn't cause it's boring and generic. It's the first thing that comes to a hack's mind.
 
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Waiter: "Can I help you guys?"
Don Juan: "I dunno, can you?"
Waiter: rolls eyes "LAME!"
she leaves and doesn't even serve the customers.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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War Against Betaism said:
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Waiter: "Can I help you guys?"
Don Juan: "I dunno, can you?"
Waiter: rolls eyes "LAME!"
she leaves and doesn't even serve the customers.
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There's nothing "Don Juan" about it. It's insecure and annoying. You're talking to a waitress, so tell her wtf your order is.
This isn't Alpha, this is insecure alpha. Let me guess, he treats even his mom this way just because he's afraid of being a pushover, right?

Nurse: "Sir, I'm going to need your medical insurance information before we can fix your broken leg"
Idiot: "I don't have to do anything you tell me to, woman."
 
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When you put try hard alpha behavior with an AFC mindset you get that kind of guy.

I would call him an Alpha-AFC. lol
 
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MisterMcGee said:
There's nothing "Don Juan" about it. It's insecure and annoying. You're talking to a waitress, so tell her wtf your order is.
This isn't Alpha, this is insecure alpha. Let me guess, he treats even his mom this way just because he's afraid of being a pushover, right?

Nurse: "Sir, I'm going to need your medical insurance information before we can fix your broken leg"
Idiot: "I don't have to do anything you tell me to, woman."
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I was being sarcastic.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Man that line if said in good way with total confidence and total believe , that sh1t wont happen . But these guys were probably value takers that were waiting for her response . Its all about how you frame things . If you frame that line normal , and say it to a girl , it will be normal . But if you say it and wait for her response with your eyes and ears open , of course she will do that .
I can guarantee you this wouldnt happen to me .
The waiter was a stupid b1tch .
 
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