"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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No not me, I was at a restaurant where almost all of the waiters are teenagers. Actually, all of the waiters are teenagers or are at least under 22. I was sitting at a table and then at the table across mine one of the waiters attends to the customers and she asks "Can I help you guys?" She wasn't really all that but she was cute, fvckable at least. They looked at her with this ****y look and said "I dunno, can you?" she rolled her eyes and said "Lame!" then left. They had this shocked face on them, I couldn't help but laugh. Just wanted to share that.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Uh okay? I could say that but I wouldn't cause it's boring and generic. It's the first thing that comes to a hack's mind.
 
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Waiter: "Can I help you guys?"
Don Juan: "I dunno, can you?"
Waiter: rolls eyes "LAME!"
she leaves and doesn't even serve the customers.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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War Against Betaism said:
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Waiter: "Can I help you guys?"
Don Juan: "I dunno, can you?"
Waiter: rolls eyes "LAME!"
she leaves and doesn't even serve the customers.
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There's nothing "Don Juan" about it. It's insecure and annoying. You're talking to a waitress, so tell her wtf your order is.
This isn't Alpha, this is insecure alpha. Let me guess, he treats even his mom this way just because he's afraid of being a pushover, right?

Nurse: "Sir, I'm going to need your medical insurance information before we can fix your broken leg"
Idiot: "I don't have to do anything you tell me to, woman."
 
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When you put try hard alpha behavior with an AFC mindset you get that kind of guy.

I would call him an Alpha-AFC. lol
 
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MisterMcGee said:
There's nothing "Don Juan" about it. It's insecure and annoying. You're talking to a waitress, so tell her wtf your order is.
This isn't Alpha, this is insecure alpha. Let me guess, he treats even his mom this way just because he's afraid of being a pushover, right?

Nurse: "Sir, I'm going to need your medical insurance information before we can fix your broken leg"
Idiot: "I don't have to do anything you tell me to, woman."
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I was being sarcastic.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Man that line if said in good way with total confidence and total believe , that sh1t wont happen . But these guys were probably value takers that were waiting for her response . Its all about how you frame things . If you frame that line normal , and say it to a girl , it will be normal . But if you say it and wait for her response with your eyes and ears open , of course she will do that .
I can guarantee you this wouldnt happen to me .
The waiter was a stupid b1tch .
 
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