"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Failed marriage proposal in front of thousands.

King Of Nowhere

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Midway through a 71-63 victory over Richmond Dec. 23 at the Los Angeles Sports Arena, UCLA's "Mistletoe Cam" cut to a couple seated courtside. The man reaches into his pocket, pulls out a ring and says, "I knew that I was going to do this since the first day that I met you, and I figured now was as good a time as any." His girlfriend's response when he gets down on one knee and pops the question? Well, let's just say it involved an awkward pause and running in the other direction.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GXUphyeOjko&feature=g-all-u&context=G2d25975FAAAAAAAABAA

I feel bad for him.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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pipe007

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He didn't read the DJ bible lol

no seriously... I'm sure there were red flags all over the place before they even went to that event....
 

shizz702

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Well and the fact she was put on the spot and in front of all those people certainly could not have helped.
 

Zerro

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All I am sure of is that if I ever decide to marry a woman I will propose to her in private.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I'm in the Mood

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Oh man, I really wanted him to pull out the C&F...
 

roman81

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Fuc k, poor guy
 

jacob

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I think it was staged. Just recently in the news, it was reported that marriage is at an all time low, so the anti christian movement decided to pull this stunt in order to subconsciously persuade others to by pass this oath of the basic building block of society.

I'm sure this scandal will cause many other copy cats, and mock the marriage oath.
 

garruk

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yeah i heard this was fake too. just a move to get a video to go viral.. something else is supposed to follow this.
 

Masculinity

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I would use the new popularity to spin more plates around campus. Dude, you go to UCLA, there is enough honeys there to make my whole family diabetic :rolleyes:

Lessons to be learned:

-Do NOT try to take the relationship "to the next level." Let women do their work.
-It's better to keep plates as plates.
-Turn your negativity into positivity.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Packers2010

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if i EVER propose to a girl. witch is like 0% likely ( i don't like the idea of her getting half for doing f all) i would do it behind closed doors just me and her. i wouldn't even do it romantic like.
 

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Robyn923b: you mean you let her do the proposal thing ?
you're not gonna get marry soon ! ;p
but i'm intersting to know your point.

Packers2010: why you'll never get married ?
axcepted what the pook said, but if you find a great chick who's what you're just looking for and even better she's a true woman who's not trying to get a social status or even your money ???

sure i agree with you, i'm not gonna do that in public, not because it's a shame but because no one need to know what happens in my life excepted her and i !
 

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Less is more. Keep it simple. Either way, he wanted marriage. Light or heavy can yield the same result, whether good or bad.

This type of sh*t only works in the movies successfully. Not in real life. He is guilty of over-application of pressure. The fine is some smashed feelings, 1 aching breaking heart, and a trip to Heartbroke River, Maine. That's my ruling.

I hope I don't see anybody here trying this just because it worked in that movie Anger Management. That's got epic fail written all over it in at least 7 languages.

Case closed.
 
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