"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Failed a test maybe?

timmylivingalie

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I have been talking to this HB8 late teens, went through her line today and asked her what she got me for Valetines day? She reponded with a big pile of sh#t. She caught me off guard and I responded back that wasnt very nice and she said something about she hated Valentines Day. I said whatever and left. What should I have done here?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Warrior74

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Let me ask you a question, have you ever talked to her outside of her line? Text, email, hanging out?
 

timmylivingalie

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Warrior74 said:
Let me ask you a question, have you ever talked to her outside of her line? Text, email, hanging out?
Some, but I heve never been on a date with her.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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why are you talking to someone in her late teens anyway?? responses like that seem normal for someone at that age. I'd suggest never wasting your time texting up/or talking on the phone with teens.
 

timmylivingalie

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AlphaGhost said:
why are you talking to someone in her late teens anyway?? responses like that seem normal for someone at that age. I'd suggest never wasting your time texting up/or talking on the phone with teens.
18 to 25 is the age group I am attracted to.
 
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