"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Failed a test maybe?

timmylivingalie

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I have been talking to this HB8 late teens, went through her line today and asked her what she got me for Valetines day? She reponded with a big pile of sh#t. She caught me off guard and I responded back that wasnt very nice and she said something about she hated Valentines Day. I said whatever and left. What should I have done here?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Warrior74

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Let me ask you a question, have you ever talked to her outside of her line? Text, email, hanging out?
 

timmylivingalie

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Warrior74 said:
Let me ask you a question, have you ever talked to her outside of her line? Text, email, hanging out?
Some, but I heve never been on a date with her.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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why are you talking to someone in her late teens anyway?? responses like that seem normal for someone at that age. I'd suggest never wasting your time texting up/or talking on the phone with teens.
 

timmylivingalie

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AlphaGhost said:
why are you talking to someone in her late teens anyway?? responses like that seem normal for someone at that age. I'd suggest never wasting your time texting up/or talking on the phone with teens.
18 to 25 is the age group I am attracted to.
 
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