"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Fact or Fiction....

Genghis Juan

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Myth or Fact...

There is an HB8.5 in one of my MBA classes. Since 9/01, she has been single without a boyfriend. She has been actively looking but hasn't been able to lay the meathooks in one. She is reasonably successful, probably makes $50k or more, she has a KILLER body; the guys in class drool over her. However, most of the guys in MBA classes are married.

Sitting next to my married guy friend, I state, "Its amazing she is still single huh?" Then he says (I can't remember exactly), "Well, for women in their very late 20's and later, there are so many more single women than single men (never married) their age or older. Something like twice as many."

(We are talking only about those women who are looking for LTR's and like minded men)

Is this Fact or Fiction?

Remember that famous Time article from the 80's that said a woman past the age of 29 is more likely to get killed by a terrorist than get married...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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WaterTiger

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The article could be right, but I think the market opens up again in the late 30's, due to divorce. We were chatting about this on another thread.

I'm in my very early 40's and I've found the quantity of men available for dating is quite good. (The quality ain't so hot, :( but the guys are there.)
 

OddTech

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I wouldn't say it's twice as many overall (in a large scale). Locally, it could be. If you look at Silicon Valley for example, you'll see many more single males than females. So in that extent, your friend's statement is untrue.
 

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Originally posted by Genghis Juan
Myth or Fact...
Sitting next to my married guy friend, I state, "Its amazing she is still single huh?" Then he says (I can't remember exactly), "Well, for women in their very late 20's and later, there are so many more single women than single men (never married) their age or older. Something like twice as many."

(We are talking only about those women who are looking for LTR's and like minded men)

Is this Fact or Fiction?

Remember that famous Time article from the 80's that said a woman past the age of 29 is more likely to get killed by a terrorist than get married...
I think the Time article belonged in the 80's, some 25 years ago. Now, you will see more men and women who are single in the 30's, because you need to study longer to have a decent income. Conversely, in the 80's you could have an entry level job, work your way up, and be married a lot earlier. So I think your statement is untrue.
 

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Who cares what Time magazine said twenty years ago?

Inquiring minds want to know what happened when you put your DJ moves on her. Time to post the field report!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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