"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Fact or Fiction....

Genghis Juan

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Myth or Fact...

There is an HB8.5 in one of my MBA classes. Since 9/01, she has been single without a boyfriend. She has been actively looking but hasn't been able to lay the meathooks in one. She is reasonably successful, probably makes $50k or more, she has a KILLER body; the guys in class drool over her. However, most of the guys in MBA classes are married.

Sitting next to my married guy friend, I state, "Its amazing she is still single huh?" Then he says (I can't remember exactly), "Well, for women in their very late 20's and later, there are so many more single women than single men (never married) their age or older. Something like twice as many."

(We are talking only about those women who are looking for LTR's and like minded men)

Is this Fact or Fiction?

Remember that famous Time article from the 80's that said a woman past the age of 29 is more likely to get killed by a terrorist than get married...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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WaterTiger

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The article could be right, but I think the market opens up again in the late 30's, due to divorce. We were chatting about this on another thread.

I'm in my very early 40's and I've found the quantity of men available for dating is quite good. (The quality ain't so hot, :( but the guys are there.)
 

OddTech

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I wouldn't say it's twice as many overall (in a large scale). Locally, it could be. If you look at Silicon Valley for example, you'll see many more single males than females. So in that extent, your friend's statement is untrue.
 

Chrispy

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Originally posted by Genghis Juan
Myth or Fact...
Sitting next to my married guy friend, I state, "Its amazing she is still single huh?" Then he says (I can't remember exactly), "Well, for women in their very late 20's and later, there are so many more single women than single men (never married) their age or older. Something like twice as many."

(We are talking only about those women who are looking for LTR's and like minded men)

Is this Fact or Fiction?

Remember that famous Time article from the 80's that said a woman past the age of 29 is more likely to get killed by a terrorist than get married...
I think the Time article belonged in the 80's, some 25 years ago. Now, you will see more men and women who are single in the 30's, because you need to study longer to have a decent income. Conversely, in the 80's you could have an entry level job, work your way up, and be married a lot earlier. So I think your statement is untrue.
 

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Who cares what Time magazine said twenty years ago?

Inquiring minds want to know what happened when you put your DJ moves on her. Time to post the field report!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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