"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Fact Of The Day!!!

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PEOPLE DON'T SETTLE DOWN UNTIL THEY ARE TOO OLD AND WEAK TO BE PLAYERS AND HOS!

So stop wondering why women cheat and if your girl or wife was/is a ho.. Just live your life and make sure you are getting what you want from your interactions with women.. Oh and the one thing you cant have is monogamy or commitment.. i you keep searching for those things all you will get is lies..
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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All girls cheat, and none of them are "truly" innocent. The harsh truth of life.
 

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Bump

A bit of a random bump i know.
But everyone should take this red pill.
 

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is the rule but there are exceptions, i for one dont cheat and if you been cheated either you didnt chose well [ been there done that ] or didnt treat her well [ not the same way as treat her the way she want ], but who i am i usualy bang someone girlfriend so.....
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Who cares, you're cheating, she's cheating. What you gonna do about it? Just go out and have fun and don't trip
 

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Who cares, you're cheating, she's cheating. What you gonna do about it? Just go out and have fun and don't trip
 

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DonGorgon said:
PEOPLE DON'T SETTLE DOWN UNTIL THEY ARE TOO OLD AND WEAK TO BE PLAYERS AND HOS!

So stop wondering why women cheat and if your girl or wife was/is a ho.. Just live your life and make sure you are getting what you want from your interactions with women.. Oh and the one thing you cant have is monogamy or commitment.. i you keep searching for those things all you will get is lies..
I don't cheat. I do wish I could say you were completely wrong, but I cannot - experience has taught me otherwise.

I do think there are more men who do not cheat (especially emotionally). I think men operate with a higher level of personal integrity than woman.

I do know that going forward a woman will make me happy or I will seal her eyes shut with a goopy wad before I kick her a55 out the door. I'm done fvckin around...
 

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I cheated with a chick who was engaged. My ex never found out, and I doubt her fiance found out either.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Bitter. I made a thread about bitter men on sosuave .. All women don't cheat .. If your game is tight. Dudes get in a relationship and fall off. They get ..soft, get .. fat, lose their spontineity then another big dog comes along and your woman can't resist .. Because your fat.. Boring as ****.. And all in her grill because you ain't got **** else to so but worry what she doing.. Can you blame her?
 

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DonGorgon said:
PEOPLE DON'T SETTLE DOWN UNTIL THEY ARE TOO OLD AND WEAK TO BE PLAYERS AND HOS!

So stop wondering why women cheat and if your girl or wife was/is a ho.. Just live your life and make sure you are getting what you want from your interactions with women.. Oh and the one thing you cant have is monogamy or commitment.. i you keep searching for those things all you will get is lies..
You are mistaken. Women who are too old and weak to be hos...are still hos. "You're suffocating me...You spend too much time in the house...I just want to go out...I was just curious about those dating sites...I need my 'me time'...So what if I spend all night and all the money at the casino?"

Then of course, there's menopause. Frigid icy cold blast from Siberia that dries out puzzies like a double dose of Depo Provera. Women that age don't settle down. They throw your stuff in the dumpster 5 minutes before pickup time, then drive your car to Tijuana and leave the keys in it and take the trolley back.
 

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Great point.

Don't worry about whether she might be cheating - worry about whether you are having sex with her when you see her. All you can do is try to be the best guy she has, but by definition we will all leave the other for someone better. It ebbs and flows. If you find she is down or moody, and you simply wait 5, 7, 10 days, she will come back as friendly as ever. Show her a great time, then vanish for awhile and if she doesn't return, you walk.
 

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Reality sucks. Three months ago, I would have posted a 500 word response on how wrong you are.

But eventually, we all learn this lesson.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I know a guy who has a girlfriend for a good 3 years so far. I find it hard to see her cheat on him. Although, I would label that guy as an "alpha."
 

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i guess the problem is that people let themselves go when theyre in a relationship
 

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Sandow said:
Who cares, you're cheating, she's cheating. What you gonna do about it? Just go out and have fun and don't trip
you are right but the problem is when i start liking a female then i hate the thought of sharing her..lol its hard to not care about a female that is really good to you..
 

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cola said:
Bitter. I made a thread about bitter men on sosuave .. All women don't cheat .. If your game is tight. Dudes get in a relationship and fall off. They get ..soft, get .. fat, lose their spontineity then another big dog comes along and your woman can't resist .. Because your fat.. Boring as ****.. And all in her grill because you ain't got **** else to so but worry what she doing.. Can you blame her?

:rockon: :rockon: :rockon: :rockon:
 

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cola said:
Bitter. I made a thread about bitter men on sosuave .. All women don't cheat .. If your game is tight. Dudes get in a relationship and fall off. They get ..soft, get .. fat, lose their spontineity then another big dog comes along and your woman can't resist .. Because your fat.. Boring as ****.. And all in her grill because you ain't got **** else to so but worry what she doing.. Can you blame her?

lol... typical delusional ego driven pseudo logic...lol "its always the mans fault.." that how feminism teaches men to think and you are feminized.. women dont cheat for logical reasons.. you try to rationalize it because you are too weak to accept that its out of you control.. I have Fed females who were iin perfectly fine loving relationships.. hahahah
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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