"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Facial Hair? ...

Demonicale

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I know we have threads about this around, but i wanna know from the guy's in the UK of how it effect's them getting women,women being attracted to them etc..

You see i usually go clean shaven all the time, but even i can notice that i'm lacking an "edge" with this.

I've got my talking game and attitude right, i'm just wanting to know if growing some facial hair can tip the game in our favour?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Purefilth

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I have light stubble mate. Use an electric shaver, clipper side every couple of days. That or occasionally clean shaven. :up:
 

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It won't make a mega difference.
My bro is rocking a tash for Movember and iv light stubble, but neither represents the difference between pulling and not pulling...
 

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JohnnyStorm said:
It won't make a mega difference.
My bro is rocking a tash for Movember and iv light stubble, but neither represents the difference between pulling and not pulling...
I'm rockin a tache too :D
 

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Purefilth said:
I'm rockin a tache too :D
Purefilth, have any of ur mates actually heard of Movember? My bros colleagues had literally never heard of it!
Personally I think that's insane!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Purefilth

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JohnnyStorm said:
Purefilth, have any of ur mates actually heard of Movember? My bros colleagues had literally never heard of it!
Personally I think that's insane!
Few of them have tbh! Only me and 1 other are actually doing it!

Its to raise awareness though, so in the years to come, few will turn to many:up:
 

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It really depends on your facial structure. Go with what you feel most confident in.
 
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