"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Facial Hair? ...

Demonicale

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I know we have threads about this around, but i wanna know from the guy's in the UK of how it effect's them getting women,women being attracted to them etc..

You see i usually go clean shaven all the time, but even i can notice that i'm lacking an "edge" with this.

I've got my talking game and attitude right, i'm just wanting to know if growing some facial hair can tip the game in our favour?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I have light stubble mate. Use an electric shaver, clipper side every couple of days. That or occasionally clean shaven. :up:
 

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It won't make a mega difference.
My bro is rocking a tash for Movember and iv light stubble, but neither represents the difference between pulling and not pulling...
 

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JohnnyStorm said:
It won't make a mega difference.
My bro is rocking a tash for Movember and iv light stubble, but neither represents the difference between pulling and not pulling...
I'm rockin a tache too :D
 

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Purefilth said:
I'm rockin a tache too :D
Purefilth, have any of ur mates actually heard of Movember? My bros colleagues had literally never heard of it!
Personally I think that's insane!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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JohnnyStorm said:
Purefilth, have any of ur mates actually heard of Movember? My bros colleagues had literally never heard of it!
Personally I think that's insane!
Few of them have tbh! Only me and 1 other are actually doing it!

Its to raise awareness though, so in the years to come, few will turn to many:up:
 

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It really depends on your facial structure. Go with what you feel most confident in.
 
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