"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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facial hair or no facial hair?

spang

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i have somewhat of a baby face when im clean shaven. normally i stay clean shaven with short sideburns. i got tired of shaving a couple weeks ago and grew a trimmed beard. here is the difference...

me clean shaven:
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v186/pyro98/208299_10150226213820466_8033053_n.jpg

me with beard:
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v186/pyro98/2013-04-03122345-1_zps5ea55bd4.jpg

i think it makes me look older, not really crazy about it. do women dig this? does it make you look more manly? lose the beard or keep it?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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You don't look that baby-face. And your beard doesn't look gross. So I'd say it doesn't matter, do what you like.
 

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Cool facial hair like yours is fine, you can work with both.
 

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spang said:
i have somewhat of a baby face when im clean shaven. normally i stay clean shaven with short sideburns. i got tired of shaving a couple weeks ago and grew a trimmed beard. here is the difference...

me clean shaven:
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v186/pyro98/208299_10150226213820466_8033053_n.jpg

me with beard:
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v186/pyro98/2013-04-03122345-1_zps5ea55bd4.jpg

i think it makes me look older, not really crazy about it. do women dig this? does it make you look more manly? lose the beard or keep it?
You don't have a baby face.

You look better with the beard as it helps hide your thinning hair.

Start working out and go on a cutting diet. It would improve your looks 100%. You are too heavy.
 

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cordoncordon said:
You don't have a baby face.

You look better with the beard as it helps hide your thinning hair.

Start working out and go on a cutting diet. It would improve your looks 100%. You are too heavy.
you called me fat! :cry:

jk
but why do you think im overweight if you only see me from the chest up?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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how about you do what you like and stop giving a damn about other opinions about you, you already crushed yourself with loads of women, because you think so much.

This $hit is about instinct and nature, not thinking, do with with your gut tell you.
 

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Facial hair is one of the most masculine things that you have, few women would be repulsed by a well-kept beard and those are women probably not worth bothering with anyways.
 

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Yeah dude the beard is good, I'd keep it. Facial hair is fine as long as you tailor it to go well with your facial shape, skin tone, thickness of the hair etc...

Some guys just look unkempt and nasty, like they have pubes glued to their face when they grow a beard, but like Zerro said, almost no women would be repulsed by a well-kept beard.
 

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cordoncordon said:
You don't have a baby face.

You look better with the beard as it helps hide your thinning hair.

Start working out and go on a cutting diet. It would improve your looks 100%. You are too heavy.
Listen to Cordon. She knows what she's talking about. In fact, I have to give her credit because she predicted based on a photo from last year that the stripper would put weight on, and she did in a hurry (but thankfully slimmed back down).

Personally I think you look better without facial hair (and a 3 day fast with the Zand detox kit would work wonders).

But facial hair seems to be in these days. In fact, last week the stripper told me I was the Doppleganger for some movie star who is way better looking than me. She showed me his photo (I think it was Gerard Butler). She asked me if I would grow facial hair like him, saying "Would you DO that for me?" in her most seductive voice. I haven't shaved since.
 

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i'm sorry if this is off topic, but why are you trying to look so pissed or serious off in your pics...and i thought you looked better and a lot younger in your first pic...did your hairline receed between those 2 times of pics?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I actually think you look better with the facial hair but everyone's opinion will differ. You have to do what makes you feel the most comfortable.
 

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everyone is going to tell you to loose weight. ii'm fat too. so i'm not going to do that.

what i can tell you though is your beard is sexy. keep it bro
 

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OP,

You look better with facial hair. No homo, bro.

From a scientific standpoint, facial hair = testosterone = more wet vaginas.

Don't take my word for it:

"Women are more attracted to, and more likely to develop a long or short-term relationship with, men with light beards or stubble."
http://www.pajiba.com/seriously_random_lists/chicks-dig-beards-science-dont-lie.php

Also, hitting the gym is definitely in your favor. You appear to have a mesomorph / endomorph body type and would get jacked with 6 months of hard weight lifting.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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it depends what you're looking for. if you seek one-night stands and generally less serious-relationships, then you would want to look your most attractive to women at all costs (whether you think cleanshaven makes you that, is subjective). however, if you're seeking something more serious and want a female that vibes with you more, then you should maintain your "frame"/ "inner game" as they call it, to screen for those females
 
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