"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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facial hair or no facial hair?

spang

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i have somewhat of a baby face when im clean shaven. normally i stay clean shaven with short sideburns. i got tired of shaving a couple weeks ago and grew a trimmed beard. here is the difference...

me clean shaven:
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v186/pyro98/208299_10150226213820466_8033053_n.jpg

me with beard:
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v186/pyro98/2013-04-03122345-1_zps5ea55bd4.jpg

i think it makes me look older, not really crazy about it. do women dig this? does it make you look more manly? lose the beard or keep it?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Swampcamel

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You don't look that baby-face. And your beard doesn't look gross. So I'd say it doesn't matter, do what you like.
 

LMFAO

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Cool facial hair like yours is fine, you can work with both.
 

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spang said:
i have somewhat of a baby face when im clean shaven. normally i stay clean shaven with short sideburns. i got tired of shaving a couple weeks ago and grew a trimmed beard. here is the difference...

me clean shaven:
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v186/pyro98/208299_10150226213820466_8033053_n.jpg

me with beard:
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v186/pyro98/2013-04-03122345-1_zps5ea55bd4.jpg

i think it makes me look older, not really crazy about it. do women dig this? does it make you look more manly? lose the beard or keep it?
You don't have a baby face.

You look better with the beard as it helps hide your thinning hair.

Start working out and go on a cutting diet. It would improve your looks 100%. You are too heavy.
 

spang

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cordoncordon said:
You don't have a baby face.

You look better with the beard as it helps hide your thinning hair.

Start working out and go on a cutting diet. It would improve your looks 100%. You are too heavy.
you called me fat! :cry:

jk
but why do you think im overweight if you only see me from the chest up?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Fatal Jay

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how about you do what you like and stop giving a damn about other opinions about you, you already crushed yourself with loads of women, because you think so much.

This $hit is about instinct and nature, not thinking, do with with your gut tell you.
 

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Facial hair is one of the most masculine things that you have, few women would be repulsed by a well-kept beard and those are women probably not worth bothering with anyways.
 

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Yeah dude the beard is good, I'd keep it. Facial hair is fine as long as you tailor it to go well with your facial shape, skin tone, thickness of the hair etc...

Some guys just look unkempt and nasty, like they have pubes glued to their face when they grow a beard, but like Zerro said, almost no women would be repulsed by a well-kept beard.
 

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cordoncordon said:
You don't have a baby face.

You look better with the beard as it helps hide your thinning hair.

Start working out and go on a cutting diet. It would improve your looks 100%. You are too heavy.
Listen to Cordon. She knows what she's talking about. In fact, I have to give her credit because she predicted based on a photo from last year that the stripper would put weight on, and she did in a hurry (but thankfully slimmed back down).

Personally I think you look better without facial hair (and a 3 day fast with the Zand detox kit would work wonders).

But facial hair seems to be in these days. In fact, last week the stripper told me I was the Doppleganger for some movie star who is way better looking than me. She showed me his photo (I think it was Gerard Butler). She asked me if I would grow facial hair like him, saying "Would you DO that for me?" in her most seductive voice. I haven't shaved since.
 

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i'm sorry if this is off topic, but why are you trying to look so pissed or serious off in your pics...and i thought you looked better and a lot younger in your first pic...did your hairline receed between those 2 times of pics?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I actually think you look better with the facial hair but everyone's opinion will differ. You have to do what makes you feel the most comfortable.
 

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everyone is going to tell you to loose weight. ii'm fat too. so i'm not going to do that.

what i can tell you though is your beard is sexy. keep it bro
 

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OP,

You look better with facial hair. No homo, bro.

From a scientific standpoint, facial hair = testosterone = more wet vaginas.

Don't take my word for it:

"Women are more attracted to, and more likely to develop a long or short-term relationship with, men with light beards or stubble."
http://www.pajiba.com/seriously_random_lists/chicks-dig-beards-science-dont-lie.php

Also, hitting the gym is definitely in your favor. You appear to have a mesomorph / endomorph body type and would get jacked with 6 months of hard weight lifting.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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it depends what you're looking for. if you seek one-night stands and generally less serious-relationships, then you would want to look your most attractive to women at all costs (whether you think cleanshaven makes you that, is subjective). however, if you're seeking something more serious and want a female that vibes with you more, then you should maintain your "frame"/ "inner game" as they call it, to screen for those females
 
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