"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Facial Hair Growth

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I recently found out certain people can grow facial hair in only certain areas.. LOL
im guessing the way it grows is different too?
anyways...can anyone give me more information on this?
mine grows really slow... just in sideburns area..... neck/jawline(i think?) .... and maybe mustache area really slowly... but NONE under the lips.... and i only got peach fuzz under the cheeks. after a week if i didnt shave the place under my cheeks is white lol.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Its mostly genetic, and I believe influenced by the amount of testosterone your body produces. Lifting weights actually caused my facial hair to thicken and grow faster (but not dramatically). You're only 18 though, it'll probably thicken up either way.
 

Dust 2 Dust

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Originally posted by Lost
I recently found out certain people can grow facial hair in only certain areas.. LOL
What you are describing is a condition called alopecia areata where men develop patches of hair on their face. It affects about 10% of men and prevents them from growing full beards. It is a condition your born with and your stuck with for life.

Your only 18 so i wouldn't worry. It may thicken as you get older.
 

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I FVCKEN WISH I HAD THAT "DISORDER" that aint no disorder man.

FlyGuy you said that having alot of facial hair is due to high testosterone...... Is this scientifically true?
Ive had insane amounts of facial hair since about 13.....
 

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I wish my sideburns were thicker...cause I like to rock the sideburns, and it's tough to when I have such thin facial hair. :mad:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I wish i could grow facial hair of any kind!

I'm 18, can see a few black hairs (like 3 or 4) where my left sideburn should be. And thats it.
 

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FlyGuy you said that having alot of facial hair is due to high testosterone...... Is this scientifically true?
Testosterone is one influencing factor, yes. But its not the only piece of the equation...
 
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