"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Facial Hair Growth

Lost

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I recently found out certain people can grow facial hair in only certain areas.. LOL
im guessing the way it grows is different too?
anyways...can anyone give me more information on this?
mine grows really slow... just in sideburns area..... neck/jawline(i think?) .... and maybe mustache area really slowly... but NONE under the lips.... and i only got peach fuzz under the cheeks. after a week if i didnt shave the place under my cheeks is white lol.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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FlyGuy

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Its mostly genetic, and I believe influenced by the amount of testosterone your body produces. Lifting weights actually caused my facial hair to thicken and grow faster (but not dramatically). You're only 18 though, it'll probably thicken up either way.
 

Dust 2 Dust

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Originally posted by Lost
I recently found out certain people can grow facial hair in only certain areas.. LOL
What you are describing is a condition called alopecia areata where men develop patches of hair on their face. It affects about 10% of men and prevents them from growing full beards. It is a condition your born with and your stuck with for life.

Your only 18 so i wouldn't worry. It may thicken as you get older.
 

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I FVCKEN WISH I HAD THAT "DISORDER" that aint no disorder man.

FlyGuy you said that having alot of facial hair is due to high testosterone...... Is this scientifically true?
Ive had insane amounts of facial hair since about 13.....
 

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I wish my sideburns were thicker...cause I like to rock the sideburns, and it's tough to when I have such thin facial hair. :mad:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I wish i could grow facial hair of any kind!

I'm 18, can see a few black hairs (like 3 or 4) where my left sideburn should be. And thats it.
 

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FlyGuy you said that having alot of facial hair is due to high testosterone...... Is this scientifically true?
Testosterone is one influencing factor, yes. But its not the only piece of the equation...
 
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