"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Facial hair: good or bad?

Maeisgood

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1. Some people say facial hair looks like pubic hair. Is this true with everyone's facial hair, does it vary, or is it only when it first comes out?

2. Chicks for the most part don't like it. Why? Is there a kind they like?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Rocko

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yes it does vary, for the most part. I know girls who like rugged men who look like they haven't shaved in days, and then there are those girls who like clean shaven guys, do what looks good on you. Girls may not like it cuz when u kiss em it may irritate them, thats a guess, not quite sure
 

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One thing is for sure: they like when you don't care they do(or don't) like.
 

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A little stubble looks good on pretty much every guy. It gives you some edge and makes you look less "safe." I'm sporting a mustache right now, but NO ONE thinks that looks good.
 
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Maeisgood said:
1. Some people say facial hair looks like pubic hair. Is this true with everyone's facial hair, does it vary, or is it only when it first comes out?

2. Chicks for the most part don't like it. Why? Is there a kind they like?
Facial hair is evil. Why do you think the devil has a goatee? Hmmm?

No one likes people with factial hair.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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^^^ This is true.


In all seriousness though, who cares. Facial hair works for me because it makes me look older. Which helps, since whenever I shave, people tell me I look 3 years younger than I actually am.
 

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i keep a little more than stubble on there cause it helps buy smokes.

the girls can kiss my ass if they dont like it.
 

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i think it's bad when girls to have facial hair.

jk.

i have a goatee myself, just the bottom part, and i haven't shaved it for 2-3 years now. my friends will occasonally nag me agout it to shave it, but i think it's the only thing that keeps girls from thinking i'm 15. i'm actually close to 22 now, but look waaay young for my age. so if that's the case with you, i'd say grow some - it helps. though, i still am more of a 'pretty boy' than a manly man. but hey, when we're 50 we'll be nailing the girls in their 20s. that is, if i've improved my game by then.
 
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it all depends on the day. I noticed a recurring patterns in intervals of having a lot of facial hair. I developed this method over years of close observation. If you're thinking about shaving that damn beard I recommend doing it on friday or monday. Trust me.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Compare the two and see for yourself.


I like to vary it so I won't look the same every time. Sometimes a like to not shave my sideburns for a few weeks or just let all the **** grow all over the place. Other times I like it clean shaven. It also depends on where I go in that period of time.
 

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nothing sexier than a guy with a strong jawline and a little stuble .that what my mom says. so yes if you have jaw for it a lil facial hair like the once shown above is nice. just a lil though. guys with a double chin shouldnt have stubles
 

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Taviii said:
I like facial hair, actually I rarely shave, just on special occasions. I have a hair trimmer and just keep it 1mm long :D

I like the bad boy / modern model look:

http://www.sunglassesitaly.com/armani/index_file/image003.jpg
http://www.ambitalia-bsas.org.ar/rivista/05/ima/Armani 2.jpg
http://www.peepers-online.com/eyewear/view_all.nhtml_files/Armani.jpeg
how do I keep it at 1mm? I'm trying to keep a tiny trace of hair as well, but I either end up shaving them all off or they get too long. The only way is keeping it for 36hours, but it gets too long by the end of the day.
 

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Hey Upper!

Use a hair trimmer. Take of all the plastic things used to give it lenght when cuting hair and use it with only the metal blades.

Here are a few examples

http://www.shavercentre.com/trimmers.html

If you do it that way it should be pretty short, not even close to a clean razor shave (about 1-2 mm depends on the machine) but thats what we want ;)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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i dont have enuff hair for the stubble look

i can rock the deep/orlando bloom stache/soulpatch look tho which fits me. I dont like having a stache.

Right now im rocking this

 

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I don't have anything on my cheeks. I've got like the musketeer facial hair pattern: mustache, under the lip, and chin. I usually look like a pirate.
 

Maeisgood

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What do you say about the pubic hair thing though? What texture is facial hair supposed to have?
 

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i wish i could grow a moustache - i am old enough but it just doesn't grow. i think its genetic
 

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It's so weird but I never used to get laid and all women hated me. Then I grew some facial hair and I have models trying to break into my house and have sex with me 24 hours a day!!

Hmmm, seriously now...do you really need our opinion on whether facial hair is good or bad? Try growing some and asking people if it suits you!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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