"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Facial hair: good or bad?

Scrumtulescence

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I can't grow a 'stache either. Well it grows there, but about ten times slower and lighter than the rest of my face. It sucks. I look ridiculous once it all grows out a bit.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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facial hair can be good or bad depending on its length and your situation.
clean shaven - you look sharp, groomed, hygienic. it could also make you look like a safe guy, not much edge without the facial hair.

5'oclock - depends. you look like you dont care about your grooming habits, which can be a good or bad thing depending on the person viewing you. it gives you some edge. can make you look mysterious and possibly have something to hide/cant be trusted....again can be good or bad.

good length and groomed facial hair - provides the benefit of the above 2. you look groomed with good hygiene and you have a good edge. however on interviews or in the workplace, employers may disapprove of this because facial hair sometimes classify higher status/maturity subconsciously. no boss wants to feel that way.
 
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