"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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hey guys..ok..just need some random inputs.

went out with this girl last weekend...at the time i was clean shaven...since then, i've sorta grown a goatie. i have a 2nd date with her tomorrow for dinner. my friend told me that i shouldn't sport a goatee yet...cos its only the 2nd date...she needs to be in the comfort zone with me all the way before i make any changes in my appearance...so i guess what i'm askin is should i go back to the clean shaven look like the 1st date? i dont know her opinion on facial hair either...so it could be a disaster or it could turn out really good...a risk..maybe if we go out on the 3rd date, it would alright. so lemme hear some opinions....thanks!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Yeah, man. That's a really important question.

To goatee, or not to goatee. :rolleyes:

Do wharever the fukk you want. She won't change her mind because of your facial hair.
 
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never said it was an "important" question...just wanted to get some "random opinions"...chill out dude.

its a discussion board...not everything has to be serious..i just wanted to get a general opinion. never said it was breaking news or something critical.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I would go with the look she knows. However, if you always had a goatee but just shaved for her on the first date, I would go with my regular look of the goatee - this is who you are.

Gradually let her see you with more facial hair and see what she says...do not change for a woman!
 
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This I gotta disagree with you on PRL,

a Guy should look however he wants without wondering if the girl will lose interest or not.

By telling him to stay with the look she knows, you are indirectly telling him to not be comfortable with what HE wants and supplicate to what the woman may want

Keep the goatee, she may like it, if she doesnt, NEXT
 
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Originally posted by sfeclipse
never said it was an "important" question...just wanted to get some "random opinions"...chill out dude.

its a discussion board...not everything has to be serious..i just wanted to get a general opinion. never said it was breaking news or something critical.
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Obiviously it was "important" enough for you to debate it! Dood your already trying too hard to be the guy you think this girl wants you to be. Fuvk her, do what makes you feel/look your best. If that means you sport a goatee, then have a goatee.



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