Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Facial Appearance Vs Body

Blaster

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For those of you out there who have average-faces: How much does working out actually improve your looks? (We're talking "Looks" here, not "game").

I've been told by many girls that facial features comes first, before body. E.g. a skinny pretty boy (ashton kutcher, stiffler etc.) would be preferred to an average dude with a muscular physique.

Besides, unless you go to the beach or wear extremely tight clothing, women are not even able to tell that you have huge pecks, or a 6-pack.

What do you guys think?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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ScrewIt

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The difference between skinny and big. is that the big guy would probably have more confident body language than the skinny guy.

the good looking guy would probably get first glances before the average big guy.

So yes if you dont stay confident with the good looking face, it's possible to lose your woman to an average joe with the built body.
 

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oh women know it often if you have a good body or not. at least since i work out i have been asked by some girls to lift up my shirt and one begged me to strip....before no girl asked me.
 

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Originally posted by Blaster
E.g. a skinny pretty boy (ashton kutcher, stiffler etc.) would be preferred to an average dude with a muscular physique.

i don't know what stiffler you are talkin about, but if you refer to american pie's one, i can't see how you can define him skinny... have you ever seen him without a shirt on, or even with a tight shirt!? i'm not sayin' he's muscular at all, but it's what everybody calls lean and ripped, not skinny... that's the ideal physique for the beach, i think
 

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i have no fuking clue how to answer that

im athetic, and i may look good without a t-shirt.. but with one i look like a skinny guy...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Liamz

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Originally posted by Blaster
For those of you out there who have average-faces: How much does working out actually improve your looks? (We're talking "Looks" here, not "game").

I've been told by many girls that facial features comes first, before body. E.g. a skinny pretty boy (ashton kutcher, stiffler etc.) would be preferred to an average dude with a muscular physique.

Besides, unless you go to the beach or wear extremely tight clothing, women are not even able to tell that you have huge pecks, or a 6-pack.

What do you guys think?
I've ALWAYS supported the face more than the body.
How DO you get The face in Tip-Top condition, Please?
:cool:
 

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lifting weights and keeping your body lean helps, because when you lift weights your face muscles are always tensing up and it gives your face a hardened more "masculine" appearance, and your jaw line will appear sharper and more defined, like Arnold Scwhartzenneger's jaw line, no double chin. :cool:

lots of cardio and weight training will make your face look well defined.

a good healthy diet will also improve your face, no junk food
 

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Originally posted by PoloBlue
lifting weights and keeping your body lean helps, because when you lift weights your face muscles are always tensing up and it gives your face a hardened more "masculine" appearance, and your jaw line will appear sharper and more defined, like Arnold Scwhartzenneger's jaw line, no double chin. :cool:

Ummm, I think the no double chin thing comes from having a low % of body fat.

Anyways, my opinion on the matter is that the face is the most important. I think the best example of this is jude law. He has a good face, but he doesnt lift weights or anything, so hes pretty skinny. Just look at his body in the movie The Talented Mr. Ripley. Sure the body helps, but like you said, it doesnt show that much when you have cloths on.
 
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