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[Aesthetix29]

Okay I know your probably sick of this Facebook malarkey ... But I have a question, I was seeing this girl around 6 weeks ago and everything seemed good but all of a sudden things just died off ... Maybe her ex was back on the scene.. Who knows. My question is the other day she posted something which I liked ... Didn't think nothing of it. Then today I put a few statuses on myself and she's liked all 3 .... I know nothing out the ordinary ... But in the 6 weeks previous I haven't heard off her nor has she liked any of my stuff ... So for her to do this all in one day, is this classed as Facebook flirting? I wouldn't mind getting things back on track with her as she's a cool chick ... But don't want too look a douche if she's not interested? I think she is - maybe things died down previously through lack of communication etc.... I'd like your thoughts and experiences on this situation? Or am I just looking too much into it?
Regards

 

[TheSplat]

It's facebook flirting, but it doesn't mean much.

 

[Aesthetix29]

Okay I'll take that, flirtings good tho yeah ... Must be some initial attraction still there ... I can work round that haha

 

[Bible_Belt]

Facebook "like" means I want to fvck you.

 

[Aesthetix29]

Should I just wait for her to initiate contact with me ... I'm pretty sure she still likes me.

 

[Thechamp]

Facebook "like" means I want to fvck you.

So your saying every like means I want to **** you not true because I will
Message these girls and sometimes no reply , what do you do when they like ?

 

[SeymourCake]

 

[dustmuffin]

Okay I'll take that, flirtings good tho yeah ... Must be some initial attraction still there ... I can work round that haha

Maybe...ask her out. Take action...either she will or won't...there is your answer...if she goes out....go for the kiss/sex.....there is your answer...if she won't then don't waste your time.

 

[Aesthetix29]

The thing is like I stated earlier ... I was seeing her meaning we were dating ...already had sex, but things died off ... And just recently started liking my statuses again... Don't want to look like I'm chasing.

 

[Aesthetix29]

Should i make the first move or wait until she does?

 

[dustmuffin]

Should i make the first move or wait until she does?

Make a move. Take action if it doesn't work out move on

 

[Aesthetix29]

How hard is it man? Do SOMETHING about it instead of sitting here making excuses not to. The worst that happens is that she says no, then you can move on and find better pvssy.

Thanks ruler, I'm not shy .. It's just that we've had something before and fizzled out ... But I still like her and I'm pretty sure she likes me, just don't want to look like a ****!

 

[dustmuffin]

Thanks ruler, I'm not shy .. It's just that we've had something before and fizzled out ... But I still like her and I'm pretty sure she likes me, just don't want to look like a ****!

How will you look like am ass? The only way you will do that is in you throw a fit if she says no.

 

[Aesthetix29]

How will you look like am ass? The only way you will do that is in you throw a fit if she says no.

Okay not an ass but like I have no options .... Let me give you a brief explanation of what happened last time ... We'd been watching hunger games 1&2 at hers and I said I had the third movie so she's like right thats our Saturday night sorted .. Film and beers... To which she said she'd get the beers in and asked what I wanted etc.. Fast forward a few days and I got made redundant (no biggy, I'm now self employed) so I told her I'd been made redundant, she was asking questions why ... And I replied too much to explain via text I'll tell you tomorrow when I call round, a few hours later she replied by saying she's going to have too cancel ... Something to do with her ex and debts. I say okay cool, whatever. And that's where it began to fizzle out ... Now I know that it looks like she ceased contact due to having no job etc.. But it's not like I'm broke I have thousands in the bank I'm making more now than I ever did. I came too the conclusion it could of been any of these things:-
- no job
- her ex was back on the scene
-or she's genuinely not interested (doubtful considering she set the date up) and for it all to go t*** up within 48 hrs)

And haven't had no contact for 6 weeks ... Except for all those status likes off her yesterday. So this is where I'm at ....
Regards

 

[dustmuffin]

Okay not an ass but like I have no options .... Let me give you a brief explanation of what happened last time ... We'd been watching hunger games 1&2 at hers and I said I had the third movie so she's like right thats our Saturday night sorted .. Film and beers... To which she said she'd get the beers in and asked what I wanted etc.. Fast forward a few days and I got made redundant (no biggy, I'm now self employed) so I told her I'd been made redundant, she was asking questions why ... And I replied too much to explain via text I'll tell you tomorrow when I call round, a few hours later she replied by saying she's going to have too cancel ... Something to do with her ex and debts. I say okay cool, whatever. And that's where it began to fizzle out ... Now I know that it looks like she ceased contact due to having no job etc.. But it's not like I'm broke I have thousands in the bank I'm making more now than I ever did. I came too the conclusion it could of been any of these things:-
- no job
- her ex was back on the scene
-or she's genuinely not interested (doubtful considering she set the date up) and for it all to go t*** up within 48 hrs)

And haven't had no contact for 6 weeks ... Except for all those status likes off her yesterday. So this is where I'm at ....
Regards

Just ask her and don't look butt hurt if she says no. You are thinking to much.

 

[Yewki]

You're still on her radar and when you liked one of her FB posts she reciprocated the attention. In real life terms, you just looked at her and she looked back with a smile. So... stop hypothesizing and just go talk to her. The probably put more effort into this thread than you needed to hook up with her.