"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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HedoRick

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I am honestly considering deleting my facebook. Nothing on my page sends up any red flags... but...

I feel like some chicks could use the smallest things to disqualify someone. If girls ask if I have a facebook, I just tell them no. It kills the mystery, in my opinion. No mystery and they lose interest.

Also, adding a bunch of girls that you are dating at the same time would be retarded.

I had a friend who did this and he said that some of the chicks messaged each other and found out about all the "plates".

What are your thoughts on facebook? I think it is a huge waste of time and could hurt rather than help. Just my opinion.. I am interested to hear your thoughts on the matter.:up:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Only keep one "overly affectionate girlfriend" type on Facebook at a time. If you break up with a girl and think she has the "i must be the only one" mentality she has to go because she will start stalking you. And the last thing a dude needs is some girl trying to make you look undesirable to other women so she can have you. The women you add on FB need to play nice with each other or give them the boot. Also consider reviewing your security settings, you can make it so it is more difficult for people to see your conversations with other people on fbook.
 

HedoRick

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I just deleted the damn thing. Stalker chicks=not cool. I'd rather hustle and leave most of a life a mystery to the women. The more plates that are spinning, the more complicated it gets. I'd rather eliminate things that are making this harder then it should be....
 

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HedoRick said:
I am honestly considering deleting my facebook. Nothing on my page sends up any red flags... but...

I feel like some chicks could use the smallest things to disqualify someone. If girls ask if I have a facebook, I just tell them no. It kills the mystery, in my opinion. No mystery and they lose interest.

Also, adding a bunch of girls that you are dating at the same time would be retarded.

I had a friend who did this and he said that some of the chicks messaged each other and found out about all the "plates".

What are your thoughts on facebook? I think it is a huge waste of time and could hurt rather than help. Just my opinion.. I am interested to hear your thoughts on the matter.:up:
I would deactivate, I deleted mine. you will get caught juggling chicks if thats what u do, plus its a waste of time. bad for jobs as well....idk atleast deactivate it IMO.
 

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i deleted it for awhile then some school friends told me to get it again. i get more updates from bloomberg then i do my friends. my friends are really lacking. i don't have a good social circle right now.

as for girls. it hard. i'm 1-1 from facebook. i did chat to a friend of a friend on there and got her number. though i did have one girl ask me for it one time then after I gave it to her, 10 mins later she doesn't message me back
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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HedoRick

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I pulled the trigger and deleted my facebook. One less thing to waste my time with/worry about when spinning plates.
 

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Deactivation was a good idea... congratulations.

I can manage my FB decently now that i'm older because I have a little more focus on who i'm interested in. And even then I get FB girl fighting and fussing every so often. I can't imagine what I would have done in HS when you need to keep your doors open to anything you can possibly hit.
 
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