"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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HedoRick

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I am honestly considering deleting my facebook. Nothing on my page sends up any red flags... but...

I feel like some chicks could use the smallest things to disqualify someone. If girls ask if I have a facebook, I just tell them no. It kills the mystery, in my opinion. No mystery and they lose interest.

Also, adding a bunch of girls that you are dating at the same time would be retarded.

I had a friend who did this and he said that some of the chicks messaged each other and found out about all the "plates".

What are your thoughts on facebook? I think it is a huge waste of time and could hurt rather than help. Just my opinion.. I am interested to hear your thoughts on the matter.:up:
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Only keep one "overly affectionate girlfriend" type on Facebook at a time. If you break up with a girl and think she has the "i must be the only one" mentality she has to go because she will start stalking you. And the last thing a dude needs is some girl trying to make you look undesirable to other women so she can have you. The women you add on FB need to play nice with each other or give them the boot. Also consider reviewing your security settings, you can make it so it is more difficult for people to see your conversations with other people on fbook.
 

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I just deleted the damn thing. Stalker chicks=not cool. I'd rather hustle and leave most of a life a mystery to the women. The more plates that are spinning, the more complicated it gets. I'd rather eliminate things that are making this harder then it should be....
 

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HedoRick said:
I am honestly considering deleting my facebook. Nothing on my page sends up any red flags... but...

I feel like some chicks could use the smallest things to disqualify someone. If girls ask if I have a facebook, I just tell them no. It kills the mystery, in my opinion. No mystery and they lose interest.

Also, adding a bunch of girls that you are dating at the same time would be retarded.

I had a friend who did this and he said that some of the chicks messaged each other and found out about all the "plates".

What are your thoughts on facebook? I think it is a huge waste of time and could hurt rather than help. Just my opinion.. I am interested to hear your thoughts on the matter.:up:
I would deactivate, I deleted mine. you will get caught juggling chicks if thats what u do, plus its a waste of time. bad for jobs as well....idk atleast deactivate it IMO.
 

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i deleted it for awhile then some school friends told me to get it again. i get more updates from bloomberg then i do my friends. my friends are really lacking. i don't have a good social circle right now.

as for girls. it hard. i'm 1-1 from facebook. i did chat to a friend of a friend on there and got her number. though i did have one girl ask me for it one time then after I gave it to her, 10 mins later she doesn't message me back
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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HedoRick

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I pulled the trigger and deleted my facebook. One less thing to waste my time with/worry about when spinning plates.
 

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Deactivation was a good idea... congratulations.

I can manage my FB decently now that i'm older because I have a little more focus on who i'm interested in. And even then I get FB girl fighting and fussing every so often. I can't imagine what I would have done in HS when you need to keep your doors open to anything you can possibly hit.
 
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