"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The_Guy

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I'm not trying to over-analyze anything here, but what do you guys think about chicks that send you friend requests on Facebook? Do you make em' wait or just add them when you see it? Or do you not accept and send them a message why they would add you?

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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DrPhysique

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I generally wait a day. I don't think it really matters. Also, most of the time I don't say anything and wait until they do. If they don't, it doesn't really matter, I'd rather not have a long chat on fb.

I think it depends on the situation a little, too.
 
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Rhino

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I get requests right away on my phone, but I generally wait a few hours before accepting. Not as any part of game, I do it with guys too, just to not make it seem like I'm sitting around on facebook all day.
 
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They're just testing you! The same thing happened to me (when I didn't really care about them) and the girl found a way to conspired against me and a group of people. I'll say forget about them if you really like them. If you don't care about them or she's not your type, accept the invite.
 
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