"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The_Guy

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I'm not trying to over-analyze anything here, but what do you guys think about chicks that send you friend requests on Facebook? Do you make em' wait or just add them when you see it? Or do you not accept and send them a message why they would add you?

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DrPhysique

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I generally wait a day. I don't think it really matters. Also, most of the time I don't say anything and wait until they do. If they don't, it doesn't really matter, I'd rather not have a long chat on fb.

I think it depends on the situation a little, too.
 
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Rhino

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I get requests right away on my phone, but I generally wait a few hours before accepting. Not as any part of game, I do it with guys too, just to not make it seem like I'm sitting around on facebook all day.
 
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They're just testing you! The same thing happened to me (when I didn't really care about them) and the girl found a way to conspired against me and a group of people. I'll say forget about them if you really like them. If you don't care about them or she's not your type, accept the invite.
 
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