"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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The_Guy

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I'm not trying to over-analyze anything here, but what do you guys think about chicks that send you friend requests on Facebook? Do you make em' wait or just add them when you see it? Or do you not accept and send them a message why they would add you?

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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DrPhysique

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I generally wait a day. I don't think it really matters. Also, most of the time I don't say anything and wait until they do. If they don't, it doesn't really matter, I'd rather not have a long chat on fb.

I think it depends on the situation a little, too.
 
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I get requests right away on my phone, but I generally wait a few hours before accepting. Not as any part of game, I do it with guys too, just to not make it seem like I'm sitting around on facebook all day.
 
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They're just testing you! The same thing happened to me (when I didn't really care about them) and the girl found a way to conspired against me and a group of people. I'll say forget about them if you really like them. If you don't care about them or she's not your type, accept the invite.
 
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