"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I need some tips about talking to girls on facebook. Most of the time it usually goes like this: me- whats up girl- nothing much u? me- same girl- cool. Then it usually ends there. Any advice?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Online is completely different to Real life. No matter what it will always be a numbers game. That means you can't take a conversation with a girl personally.

As for what to say, it's ultimately just about expressing who you are as a person. Be the guy with good playful energy. Teasing is very good and when used correctly can lead to some amazing meet ups with girls.

Wait until my book "Meeting Women On Facebook" is published and out in stores. It'll explain everything.
 

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Don't do generic conversations and don't look too much into facebook convos or msn or the likes, very different to real life.

I usually just try and find out a bit more about them and develop a bit of an 'injoke' if possible for the next time i meet them in real life.

Don't go on about yourself much, my main advice (in any walk of life really): Keep It Simple Stupid

p.s flirt subtly if you're interested in the girl. Little hints drive people crazy, girls pull that stuff on guys all the time. Innuendo and the likes.
 
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