"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I need some tips about talking to girls on facebook. Most of the time it usually goes like this: me- whats up girl- nothing much u? me- same girl- cool. Then it usually ends there. Any advice?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Online is completely different to Real life. No matter what it will always be a numbers game. That means you can't take a conversation with a girl personally.

As for what to say, it's ultimately just about expressing who you are as a person. Be the guy with good playful energy. Teasing is very good and when used correctly can lead to some amazing meet ups with girls.

Wait until my book "Meeting Women On Facebook" is published and out in stores. It'll explain everything.
 
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Don't do generic conversations and don't look too much into facebook convos or msn or the likes, very different to real life.

I usually just try and find out a bit more about them and develop a bit of an 'injoke' if possible for the next time i meet them in real life.

Don't go on about yourself much, my main advice (in any walk of life really): Keep It Simple Stupid

p.s flirt subtly if you're interested in the girl. Little hints drive people crazy, girls pull that stuff on guys all the time. Innuendo and the likes.
 
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