"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Is lame etc etc etc

However. Is it weird to add someone who you work with (In different departments though) and have never properly spoke too, especially not enough to know her name, but someone told you her name?

If not, how do I pull it off etc. We work different shifts (Her morning, me evenings) so only when I am working a full day do I get to see her. So I really have no ideal opportunity to speak to her. This would be my only way of getting to her.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Yeah, try speaking with her a couple times first so she'll definately know who you are when you add her as a friend. Very few people take kindly to friend requests from people that they don't recognize.
 
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just adding her on facebook...without really knowing her...might seem kinda creepy...to her. I would do like omega said...and just go talk to when you have a chance!
 
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Blown5.0 said:
just adding her on facebook...without really knowing her...might seem kinda creepy...to her. I would do like omega said...and just go talk to when you have a chance!
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Fair do's. To be honest, I thought that anyway. Just wondered if there was any way I could pull it off. But thinking about it, theres probably not.

So now I need some sort of situation/way of talking to her. I dont work with her often, and I leave in 18 days.

I'll figure something out but its when there is no situation to comment on I struggle. Cold approaching without something to talk about straight away, I find slightly awkard.
 
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the good old fashion " Hi " is good...if nothing else comes to mind!
 
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So I figured I would steal this thread since it seems as though Peter's question has been answered... this is pretty crazy...

I came home last nite and jumped on facebook, to find this really hot chick friend requested me. I'm thinkin... "hmm, this chick doesn't look familiar but she's hot so I'll say yes...". So I accept it, and what do ya know, shes on. So I message her in the facebook instant messenger lol. She gives me some sht about how she thinks she knows me and I look familar and blah blah. We get by that and wtf she's pretty cool. So we end up talking for like 4 hrs, the first 2 on fb and the last 2 over the phone lol. She was drinkin wine by herself at home, lol so was I, and our convo was interesting. Haha I talked her into sendin me a pic of her tits (Amazing tits lol... she was braggin em up... it was so easy. Lately I have been the master at gettin chicks to send me the nakedness pics. I seriously have received like 5 nakedness pics from all different chicks in the past month). She texted me today... and we are gonna go out this weekend. Just wanted to put this out there bc this is pretty fckin cool.

Austin
 
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