"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Is lame etc etc etc

However. Is it weird to add someone who you work with (In different departments though) and have never properly spoke too, especially not enough to know her name, but someone told you her name?

If not, how do I pull it off etc. We work different shifts (Her morning, me evenings) so only when I am working a full day do I get to see her. So I really have no ideal opportunity to speak to her. This would be my only way of getting to her.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Yeah, try speaking with her a couple times first so she'll definately know who you are when you add her as a friend. Very few people take kindly to friend requests from people that they don't recognize.
 
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just adding her on facebook...without really knowing her...might seem kinda creepy...to her. I would do like omega said...and just go talk to when you have a chance!
 
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Blown5.0 said:
just adding her on facebook...without really knowing her...might seem kinda creepy...to her. I would do like omega said...and just go talk to when you have a chance!
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ditto!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Fair do's. To be honest, I thought that anyway. Just wondered if there was any way I could pull it off. But thinking about it, theres probably not.

So now I need some sort of situation/way of talking to her. I dont work with her often, and I leave in 18 days.

I'll figure something out but its when there is no situation to comment on I struggle. Cold approaching without something to talk about straight away, I find slightly awkard.
 
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the good old fashion " Hi " is good...if nothing else comes to mind!
 
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So I figured I would steal this thread since it seems as though Peter's question has been answered... this is pretty crazy...

I came home last nite and jumped on facebook, to find this really hot chick friend requested me. I'm thinkin... "hmm, this chick doesn't look familiar but she's hot so I'll say yes...". So I accept it, and what do ya know, shes on. So I message her in the facebook instant messenger lol. She gives me some sht about how she thinks she knows me and I look familar and blah blah. We get by that and wtf she's pretty cool. So we end up talking for like 4 hrs, the first 2 on fb and the last 2 over the phone lol. She was drinkin wine by herself at home, lol so was I, and our convo was interesting. Haha I talked her into sendin me a pic of her tits (Amazing tits lol... she was braggin em up... it was so easy. Lately I have been the master at gettin chicks to send me the nakedness pics. I seriously have received like 5 nakedness pics from all different chicks in the past month). She texted me today... and we are gonna go out this weekend. Just wanted to put this out there bc this is pretty fckin cool.

Austin
 
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