I just got ****ing laid because of talking to this chick from facebook for a couple weeks back and fourth. So **** all you haters. Why in the world don't I go randomly poking MANY chicks and feeding them ****, I have no idea. Buhgawwwwwwwwwwwwww....
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Nice nice. To tell the truth, I actually lost my virginity to a girl I met on facebook. She was a transfer student, randomly added me, and I played it cool and we hooked up in a matter of days.
Instead of making this a bragging thread why don't you help out some of the other posters. Here I will help you out to make this post relevent to sosuave.Sexual said:I just got ****ing laid because of talking to this chick from facebook for a couple weeks back and fourth. So **** all you haters. Why in the world don't I go randomly poking MANY chicks and feeding them ****, I have no idea. Buhgawwwwwwwwwwwwww....
1) How did you find the girl? was it a simple random add on or or through a friend friends?
2) Did you write anything to her or you just added her?
3) What were the responses and interaction like for a couple of weeks? what did you say?
4) what did you finally say to her to convince her to meet you and where did you agree to meet her for the date?
5) what did you do on the date or go on a date and how did you esscalate it to sex? or was it already agreed upon prior to the meeting you will have sex with her?
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Sexual said:I just got ****ing laid because of talking to this chick from facebook for a couple weeks back and fourth. So **** all you haters. Why in the world don't I go randomly poking MANY chicks and feeding them ****, I have no idea. Buhgawwwwwwwwwwwwww....
Sweet !!..i mised the whole facebook thing altogther when i was in college
though ...though it good to see others take advantage of it..its beats myspace !!
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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no it does not beat myspace at all.KneghtRyder said:Sweet !!..i mised the whole facebook thing altogther when i was in college
though ...though it good to see others take advantage of it..its beats myspace !!
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you need to be the one doing the sendingrjones said:I just started these online profiles a few days ago and I keep getting messages from fat girls. Does this happend to you guys too?
that's cool, but could you give us some more info like the post i have quoted?DJDamage said:Instead of making this a bragging thread why don't you help out some of the other posters. Here I will help you out to make this post relevent to sosuave.
1) How did you find the girl? was it a simple random add on or or through a friend friends?
2) Did you write anything to her or you just added her?
3) What were the responses and interaction like for a couple of weeks? what did you say?
4) what did you finally say to her to convince her to meet you and where did you agree to meet her for the date?
5) what did you do on the date or go on a date and how did you esscalate it to sex? or was it already agreed upon prior to the meeting you will have sex with her?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I get quite a bit of offers from fat chicks on myspace. Never banged a fat one though. One chubby 41 yr old married woman with 2 kids, messaged me the other day "just wanting to be friends!"
Later on, she said, "you live too close. I might be tempted to invite you over!"
We talked for awhile and she says "My husband is gone all week! By Tuesday, I am needing company!"
Her husband is a truck driver who is always on the road.
Later on, she said, "you live too close. I might be tempted to invite you over!"
We talked for awhile and she says "My husband is gone all week! By Tuesday, I am needing company!"
Her husband is a truck driver who is always on the road.
i find it hard to get a girl to respond through myspace messages, especially if its someone you've never met. best one to my knowledge to ever get the ball rolling is to send a sincere sounding message claiming you have met before but arent sure and need their response to conclude. after that you can basically lead the convo any which way and move on to AIM convos/phone/to meeting.
I'm not a hater towards facebook, but you really should stop the online thing to an extent or you may appear as unconfident.
Get off the computer as soon as you can! (This includes any instant messengers as well.) I agree, they are easy to start meeting a person; however, once you feel comfortable with them, you need to get her on the phone and than in person! These are all bridges to move onto the next step, don't stay on the same part of the bridge the whole time.
Get off the computer as soon as you can! (This includes any instant messengers as well.) I agree, they are easy to start meeting a person; however, once you feel comfortable with them, you need to get her on the phone and than in person! These are all bridges to move onto the next step, don't stay on the same part of the bridge the whole time.
When I first got on myspace, I got a good amount of random messages from girls. Some of them fairly attactive. Then all of a sudden I hit a wall one month and it stopped. Now I don't think a random girl has emailed me in over a year. I have absolutely no idea why it stopped and stopped all of a sudden. I'm trying to think if I added anything to my profile that weirded them out, but I had others I know look my profile over very carefully and they could really find nothing wrong. Strange.
facebook is sooo easy all you do is spam whats up to a few hundred girls. Then you get some responses and go from there. I just started some facebook pimping last week, and I already got 2 numbers. I chilled with one already and have some guaranteed ***** for the week. The best thing is you can line up some prospects for later too, and it never stops. Anyone here have a similar approach?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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the thing is...i go to school and if things didnt work out then you'll have one more person to be avoiding at school...u know what i mean? and if i mass email and they think im wierd then ill get a ton of crazy looks...plus most girls wont talk to you if you dont know them...are u guys talking about meeting people in a general area of u? how do u even find them?
The problem with the mass spamming to girls on facebook and myspace is that millions upon millions of dudes are doing it during all the hours of the day. Any girl I know who is decent looking, the first thing she does when she opens her page is click delete about 20 times.Dman101 said:facebook is sooo easy all you do is spam whats up to a few hundred girls. Then you get some responses and go from there. I just started some facebook pimping last week, and I already got 2 numbers. I chilled with one already and have some guaranteed ***** for the week. The best thing is you can line up some prospects for later too, and it never stops. Anyone here have a similar approach?
I think these things would be best if guys just narrowed their wussups down to girls whose profiles they have actually read and that they think they have something in common with. Otherwise, girls just get jaded by having their inbox filled up with random guys saying "wussup baby" and then they just start to ignore them.
One thing you can do is spam message wassup to girls that arent in your school, girls who graduated from a certain HS in a certain year. I can sit there in about 30 min and send out my message to mayb 200 good lookn women. i mean here are my results so far, all in about a week:
ONe girl that i got physical with already and will d efinately **** this week, one very sexy girl that i have a date scheduled with this week seems like wifey potential, one descent girl thats down to chill, one 9.5 that i talked to on AIM and made a good connection with, one crazy chick begging me to call her (guaranteed fb if i want), and a ton of other responses that i need to develop into something. So im telln you facebook really is the ****. get on it and do some pimping
ONe girl that i got physical with already and will d efinately **** this week, one very sexy girl that i have a date scheduled with this week seems like wifey potential, one descent girl thats down to chill, one 9.5 that i talked to on AIM and made a good connection with, one crazy chick begging me to call her (guaranteed fb if i want), and a ton of other responses that i need to develop into something. So im telln you facebook really is the ****. get on it and do some pimping
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