I just got ****ing laid because of talking to this chick from facebook for a couple weeks back and fourth. So **** all you haters. Why in the world don't I go randomly poking MANY chicks and feeding them ****, I have no idea. Buhgawwwwwwwwwwwwww....
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Nice nice. To tell the truth, I actually lost my virginity to a girl I met on facebook. She was a transfer student, randomly added me, and I played it cool and we hooked up in a matter of days.
Instead of making this a bragging thread why don't you help out some of the other posters. Here I will help you out to make this post relevent to sosuave.Sexual said:I just got ****ing laid because of talking to this chick from facebook for a couple weeks back and fourth. So **** all you haters. Why in the world don't I go randomly poking MANY chicks and feeding them ****, I have no idea. Buhgawwwwwwwwwwwwww....
1) How did you find the girl? was it a simple random add on or or through a friend friends?
2) Did you write anything to her or you just added her?
3) What were the responses and interaction like for a couple of weeks? what did you say?
4) what did you finally say to her to convince her to meet you and where did you agree to meet her for the date?
5) what did you do on the date or go on a date and how did you esscalate it to sex? or was it already agreed upon prior to the meeting you will have sex with her?
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Sexual said:I just got ****ing laid because of talking to this chick from facebook for a couple weeks back and fourth. So **** all you haters. Why in the world don't I go randomly poking MANY chicks and feeding them ****, I have no idea. Buhgawwwwwwwwwwwwww....
Sweet !!..i mised the whole facebook thing altogther when i was in college
though ...though it good to see others take advantage of it..its beats myspace !!
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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no it does not beat myspace at all.KneghtRyder said:Sweet !!..i mised the whole facebook thing altogther when i was in college
though ...though it good to see others take advantage of it..its beats myspace !!
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you need to be the one doing the sendingrjones said:I just started these online profiles a few days ago and I keep getting messages from fat girls. Does this happend to you guys too?
that's cool, but could you give us some more info like the post i have quoted?DJDamage said:Instead of making this a bragging thread why don't you help out some of the other posters. Here I will help you out to make this post relevent to sosuave.
1) How did you find the girl? was it a simple random add on or or through a friend friends?
2) Did you write anything to her or you just added her?
3) What were the responses and interaction like for a couple of weeks? what did you say?
4) what did you finally say to her to convince her to meet you and where did you agree to meet her for the date?
5) what did you do on the date or go on a date and how did you esscalate it to sex? or was it already agreed upon prior to the meeting you will have sex with her?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I get quite a bit of offers from fat chicks on myspace. Never banged a fat one though. One chubby 41 yr old married woman with 2 kids, messaged me the other day "just wanting to be friends!"
Later on, she said, "you live too close. I might be tempted to invite you over!"
We talked for awhile and she says "My husband is gone all week! By Tuesday, I am needing company!"
Her husband is a truck driver who is always on the road.
Later on, she said, "you live too close. I might be tempted to invite you over!"
We talked for awhile and she says "My husband is gone all week! By Tuesday, I am needing company!"
Her husband is a truck driver who is always on the road.
i find it hard to get a girl to respond through myspace messages, especially if its someone you've never met. best one to my knowledge to ever get the ball rolling is to send a sincere sounding message claiming you have met before but arent sure and need their response to conclude. after that you can basically lead the convo any which way and move on to AIM convos/phone/to meeting.
I'm not a hater towards facebook, but you really should stop the online thing to an extent or you may appear as unconfident.
Get off the computer as soon as you can! (This includes any instant messengers as well.) I agree, they are easy to start meeting a person; however, once you feel comfortable with them, you need to get her on the phone and than in person! These are all bridges to move onto the next step, don't stay on the same part of the bridge the whole time.
Get off the computer as soon as you can! (This includes any instant messengers as well.) I agree, they are easy to start meeting a person; however, once you feel comfortable with them, you need to get her on the phone and than in person! These are all bridges to move onto the next step, don't stay on the same part of the bridge the whole time.
When I first got on myspace, I got a good amount of random messages from girls. Some of them fairly attactive. Then all of a sudden I hit a wall one month and it stopped. Now I don't think a random girl has emailed me in over a year. I have absolutely no idea why it stopped and stopped all of a sudden. I'm trying to think if I added anything to my profile that weirded them out, but I had others I know look my profile over very carefully and they could really find nothing wrong. Strange.
facebook is sooo easy all you do is spam whats up to a few hundred girls. Then you get some responses and go from there. I just started some facebook pimping last week, and I already got 2 numbers. I chilled with one already and have some guaranteed ***** for the week. The best thing is you can line up some prospects for later too, and it never stops. Anyone here have a similar approach?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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the thing is...i go to school and if things didnt work out then you'll have one more person to be avoiding at school...u know what i mean? and if i mass email and they think im wierd then ill get a ton of crazy looks...plus most girls wont talk to you if you dont know them...are u guys talking about meeting people in a general area of u? how do u even find them?
The problem with the mass spamming to girls on facebook and myspace is that millions upon millions of dudes are doing it during all the hours of the day. Any girl I know who is decent looking, the first thing she does when she opens her page is click delete about 20 times.Dman101 said:facebook is sooo easy all you do is spam whats up to a few hundred girls. Then you get some responses and go from there. I just started some facebook pimping last week, and I already got 2 numbers. I chilled with one already and have some guaranteed ***** for the week. The best thing is you can line up some prospects for later too, and it never stops. Anyone here have a similar approach?
I think these things would be best if guys just narrowed their wussups down to girls whose profiles they have actually read and that they think they have something in common with. Otherwise, girls just get jaded by having their inbox filled up with random guys saying "wussup baby" and then they just start to ignore them.
One thing you can do is spam message wassup to girls that arent in your school, girls who graduated from a certain HS in a certain year. I can sit there in about 30 min and send out my message to mayb 200 good lookn women. i mean here are my results so far, all in about a week:
ONe girl that i got physical with already and will d efinately **** this week, one very sexy girl that i have a date scheduled with this week seems like wifey potential, one descent girl thats down to chill, one 9.5 that i talked to on AIM and made a good connection with, one crazy chick begging me to call her (guaranteed fb if i want), and a ton of other responses that i need to develop into something. So im telln you facebook really is the ****. get on it and do some pimping
ONe girl that i got physical with already and will d efinately **** this week, one very sexy girl that i have a date scheduled with this week seems like wifey potential, one descent girl thats down to chill, one 9.5 that i talked to on AIM and made a good connection with, one crazy chick begging me to call her (guaranteed fb if i want), and a ton of other responses that i need to develop into something. So im telln you facebook really is the ****. get on it and do some pimping
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