"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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thedoc

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Here's a quick little story:

Last night, I somehow ended up in a 3-way conversation with my friend and his friend who happened to be a cute girl. He was trying to give her boyfriend advice but invited me to help.
Basically, at the end of the conversation two things happened:
1. She said "I'm probably going to forget about this guy" and
2. She asked me for my facebook.
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The problem is, I'm not the best looking guy around. I don't think I'm UGLY but idk, I don't tend to do so well in clubs which I think is a good indicator of looks. So, when I sent her my facebook, I couldn't help but feel self-conscious. Honestly, I stopped feeling self-conscious in real life a while ago and when I got that feeling last night, it really sucked.
Now, I know I can't do too much about my looks, but just like clothes and hair I can try to make my facebook page as good as possible.

I don't wanna waste too much time on this so I'll quickly describe my page:
-Profile picture is me in a tank top, my muscles look a lil big lol :D
-I never spent the time filling out an about me, favorites, etc., not do I plan to
-Once in a while I go to my own profile page and if it happens that there are too many guys' posts I just tell a girl to make me a video.
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My questions for you guys:
-Is there anything I can have more of or better of?
-How do YOU guys handle your facebooks?
-Any other tips/suggestions?

I understand that this isn't THAT important, but my opinion is that since I already have a facebook, I might as well make the best of it.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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colombiandude

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Honestly, i dotn give a fvck about my facebook. i stopped being self conscious long ago and honestly dont care anymore. im known in my school for having a big nose. actually though. many people call me nose and my friend even made my nose a facebook. i learned to not care at all in reality. and it has helped me get more confident even. lol. so dont feel conscious about your facebook, its not worth it. lol.
 

Audiophile

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From my own experience, the best thing to do is to not even use facebook. I usually just say I'm not into the whole facebook thing. I like to keep my interactions in person. If I really want to talk to someone who is far away, I will use skype or something similar. But for girls, facebook is actually more of a nuisance, because you start to think "What if she saw XXX on facebook?"
 

mll0016

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The way I do things...
I give off the "shady" look. When a girl doesn't know a lot about a guy, she will pursue him until she does. So be "sketchy" in a way.
To do this : I recommend not having a picture on facebook. Or, Instead of having a picture of you with your "muscles", put a random pic or you from a long time ago. Then, if she sees you in person, she will be impressed by your "muscles" that you "hid" from her.

You can do many more things that perceive you as being sketchy.
It works. I promise.

Get where I'm going with this?
 

COD

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Well you are mistaken, looks ONLY get you so far......if you focus just on your looks you are losing out. Take two equally good looking guys.......what separates the two.

ONLINE and IN FIELD gaming require two different skill sets. Using your facebook to seduce women is kinda cheesy but it does work. IF you ain't born with super model looks you STILL have options.

Do you know how many times I see scruffs with super model chics........PERSONALITY is the one thing you can sculpt.

Projecting confidence and humor thru your postings goes a long way.

Women dont just click on the hottest pics..........some actually read posts/profiles. You need to research inner game before going any further, then cultivate FACEBOOK GAMING tactics.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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