"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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thedoc

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Here's a quick little story:

Last night, I somehow ended up in a 3-way conversation with my friend and his friend who happened to be a cute girl. He was trying to give her boyfriend advice but invited me to help.
Basically, at the end of the conversation two things happened:
1. She said "I'm probably going to forget about this guy" and
2. She asked me for my facebook.
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The problem is, I'm not the best looking guy around. I don't think I'm UGLY but idk, I don't tend to do so well in clubs which I think is a good indicator of looks. So, when I sent her my facebook, I couldn't help but feel self-conscious. Honestly, I stopped feeling self-conscious in real life a while ago and when I got that feeling last night, it really sucked.
Now, I know I can't do too much about my looks, but just like clothes and hair I can try to make my facebook page as good as possible.

I don't wanna waste too much time on this so I'll quickly describe my page:
-Profile picture is me in a tank top, my muscles look a lil big lol :D
-I never spent the time filling out an about me, favorites, etc., not do I plan to
-Once in a while I go to my own profile page and if it happens that there are too many guys' posts I just tell a girl to make me a video.
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My questions for you guys:
-Is there anything I can have more of or better of?
-How do YOU guys handle your facebooks?
-Any other tips/suggestions?

I understand that this isn't THAT important, but my opinion is that since I already have a facebook, I might as well make the best of it.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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colombiandude

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Honestly, i dotn give a fvck about my facebook. i stopped being self conscious long ago and honestly dont care anymore. im known in my school for having a big nose. actually though. many people call me nose and my friend even made my nose a facebook. i learned to not care at all in reality. and it has helped me get more confident even. lol. so dont feel conscious about your facebook, its not worth it. lol.
 

Audiophile

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From my own experience, the best thing to do is to not even use facebook. I usually just say I'm not into the whole facebook thing. I like to keep my interactions in person. If I really want to talk to someone who is far away, I will use skype or something similar. But for girls, facebook is actually more of a nuisance, because you start to think "What if she saw XXX on facebook?"
 

mll0016

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The way I do things...
I give off the "shady" look. When a girl doesn't know a lot about a guy, she will pursue him until she does. So be "sketchy" in a way.
To do this : I recommend not having a picture on facebook. Or, Instead of having a picture of you with your "muscles", put a random pic or you from a long time ago. Then, if she sees you in person, she will be impressed by your "muscles" that you "hid" from her.

You can do many more things that perceive you as being sketchy.
It works. I promise.

Get where I'm going with this?
 

COD

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Well you are mistaken, looks ONLY get you so far......if you focus just on your looks you are losing out. Take two equally good looking guys.......what separates the two.

ONLINE and IN FIELD gaming require two different skill sets. Using your facebook to seduce women is kinda cheesy but it does work. IF you ain't born with super model looks you STILL have options.

Do you know how many times I see scruffs with super model chics........PERSONALITY is the one thing you can sculpt.

Projecting confidence and humor thru your postings goes a long way.

Women dont just click on the hottest pics..........some actually read posts/profiles. You need to research inner game before going any further, then cultivate FACEBOOK GAMING tactics.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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