"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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R1ch4rd

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While you should intiate. If your trying to build attraction and they invest in you a bit then they are going to talk to you. But you cant have a quikc bit of small talk online then ravishing convo in rea life, unless you initate it.
 

kraytkiller

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All the time. Sometimes my fault, sometimes theirs.

With girls, they usually are the ones to avoid you after adding them and talking to them, if they're the normal kind, and not the social/cool kind. All you have to do with them though is go up to them and talk to them first. Never been rejected doing this... Though I don't know how well it would go if your conversation went badly.
 

S.Y.L

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I have screwed up so many times in the past like this, I will be awesome at talking to girls online, but I was too scared to talk to them in person, and they lose interest because of this, and of my lack to make a move.

Yeah, not a good idea.
 
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