MartyMcFly
Don Juan
I've been contemplating deleting it for some time now. Since I rarely ever use it and for the most part the only use I get out of it is to upload pictures. I'm not sure. What do you guys think?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Facebook: Keep it or no?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Thundernuts
Senior Don Juan
delete it. It wont stop the facebook drama thats going on but it will keep you out of it. I think thats the reason people(especially from what ive been seeing the past couple of days) are having so much problems now because of facebook. Your thoughts are supposed to be kept in your head, not on a website for everyone to see.
MartyMcFly
Don Juan
Yeah, I see your point. Seems to me like it could also make me seem more mysterious since I don't have one with all my info for people to see. I dunno.
think Mcfly, THINK! You control what you put on your profile so in that sense, you can divulge as much or as little as you chose. Most importantly, women can see your social proof without even trying. If you have a bunch of women posting crap on your wall, than they will ask whats up.
tony-montana
Senior Don Juan
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yeah, i get girls posting on my wall all the time, my girl gets jealous about it. works to my advantage! plus i dont put all my info on it anyway. i hardly post a status.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I actually have two Facebooks. One with my DJ alias (my middle name with my truncated last name) that I use to game chicks. And the other one with my actual name for family and friends. If you're good with computers, you can tailor it exactly so that certain people (or groups of people) either have or don't have access to things.synergy1 said:
Like with texting, if you know what you're doing, Facebook can be powerful for this purpose: