MartyMcFly
Don Juan
I've been contemplating deleting it for some time now. Since I rarely ever use it and for the most part the only use I get out of it is to upload pictures. I'm not sure. What do you guys think?
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I actually have two Facebooks. One with my DJ alias (my middle name with my truncated last name) that I use to game chicks. And the other one with my actual name for family and friends. If you're good with computers, you can tailor it exactly so that certain people (or groups of people) either have or don't have access to things.synergy1 said:You control what you put on your profile so in that sense, you can divulge as much or as little as you chose.
Like with texting, if you know what you're doing, Facebook can be powerful for this purpose:Most importantly, women can see your social proof without even trying.
The only time that you can milk FB [Facebook] friends for social proof is if you can go out with them and post pictures of you two having a blast. Works wonders for me. I have an HB9 out of town friend who I go out with when she's in town and take pics with. We're FB friends so we tag them and then proceed to use them as social proof. The next day people are texting/messaging me "Who's that chick? She's really cute." "I didn't know you guys were dating!" "So when are you gonna ask me out?" That's the power of social proof on FB."