"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Facebook: Keep it or no?

MartyMcFly

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I've been contemplating deleting it for some time now. Since I rarely ever use it and for the most part the only use I get out of it is to upload pictures. I'm not sure. What do you guys think?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Thundernuts

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delete it. It wont stop the facebook drama thats going on but it will keep you out of it. I think thats the reason people(especially from what ive been seeing the past couple of days) are having so much problems now because of facebook. Your thoughts are supposed to be kept in your head, not on a website for everyone to see.
 

MartyMcFly

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Yeah, I see your point. Seems to me like it could also make me seem more mysterious since I don't have one with all my info for people to see. I dunno.
 

synergy1

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think Mcfly, THINK! You control what you put on your profile so in that sense, you can divulge as much or as little as you chose. Most importantly, women can see your social proof without even trying. If you have a bunch of women posting crap on your wall, than they will ask whats up.
 

tony-montana

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yeah, i get girls posting on my wall all the time, my girl gets jealous about it. works to my advantage! plus i dont put all my info on it anyway. i hardly post a status.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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vatoloco

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synergy1 said:
You control what you put on your profile so in that sense, you can divulge as much or as little as you chose.
I actually have two Facebooks. One with my DJ alias (my middle name with my truncated last name) that I use to game chicks. And the other one with my actual name for family and friends. If you're good with computers, you can tailor it exactly so that certain people (or groups of people) either have or don't have access to things.


Most importantly, women can see your social proof without even trying.
Like with texting, if you know what you're doing, Facebook can be powerful for this purpose:
The only time that you can milk FB [Facebook] friends for social proof is if you can go out with them and post pictures of you two having a blast. Works wonders for me. I have an HB9 out of town friend who I go out with when she's in town and take pics with. We're FB friends so we tag them and then proceed to use them as social proof. The next day people are texting/messaging me "Who's that chick? She's really cute." "I didn't know you guys were dating!" "So when are you gonna ask me out?" That's the power of social proof on FB."
 
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