"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Facebook: Keep it or no?

MartyMcFly

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I've been contemplating deleting it for some time now. Since I rarely ever use it and for the most part the only use I get out of it is to upload pictures. I'm not sure. What do you guys think?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Thundernuts

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delete it. It wont stop the facebook drama thats going on but it will keep you out of it. I think thats the reason people(especially from what ive been seeing the past couple of days) are having so much problems now because of facebook. Your thoughts are supposed to be kept in your head, not on a website for everyone to see.
 

MartyMcFly

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Yeah, I see your point. Seems to me like it could also make me seem more mysterious since I don't have one with all my info for people to see. I dunno.
 

synergy1

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think Mcfly, THINK! You control what you put on your profile so in that sense, you can divulge as much or as little as you chose. Most importantly, women can see your social proof without even trying. If you have a bunch of women posting crap on your wall, than they will ask whats up.
 

tony-montana

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yeah, i get girls posting on my wall all the time, my girl gets jealous about it. works to my advantage! plus i dont put all my info on it anyway. i hardly post a status.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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vatoloco

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synergy1 said:
You control what you put on your profile so in that sense, you can divulge as much or as little as you chose.
I actually have two Facebooks. One with my DJ alias (my middle name with my truncated last name) that I use to game chicks. And the other one with my actual name for family and friends. If you're good with computers, you can tailor it exactly so that certain people (or groups of people) either have or don't have access to things.


Most importantly, women can see your social proof without even trying.
Like with texting, if you know what you're doing, Facebook can be powerful for this purpose:
The only time that you can milk FB [Facebook] friends for social proof is if you can go out with them and post pictures of you two having a blast. Works wonders for me. I have an HB9 out of town friend who I go out with when she's in town and take pics with. We're FB friends so we tag them and then proceed to use them as social proof. The next day people are texting/messaging me "Who's that chick? She's really cute." "I didn't know you guys were dating!" "So when are you gonna ask me out?" That's the power of social proof on FB."
 
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