"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Facebook is testing a dating feature

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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https://www.cnet.com/news/facebook-dating-may-let-you-keep-secrets-from-friends-and-family/

Facebook has begun internal testing for its new dating app.

"This is going to be for building real, long-term relationships, not just hook-ups," Zuckerberg said at the conference.
Facebook with Amazon planning a Banking system.

The dating app was announced a few months ago.. they would use Video Feature (youtube competition)..

I look forward to have on Facebook all my life needs (dating, journal, photos, banking, TV)
 

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Screw facebook, Im fine without it and for all I care they could upload the original pictures of jesus return in the currenct world and still I wouldnt bother to join it.

Thanks but I'm done with the rat race, I aint gonna quit my freedom nor my freedom of tought without fighting let alone collaborating.
 

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Wouldn't trust that robotic freak. Suckerburger probably made this so he could get some azz. Playing the "I don't want a hook up, I want a REAL relationship, baby!" game. Loser
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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oh my god why. they want to get the most out of dating market. profit is all they want.


zuckerburg can say all he wants "its for long relationships, not for quick sex, THEREFORE its good, healthy, positive APP"
its just another ****ty tool (another popular dating app) to further empower women.

it will work like that:
- does he have friends?
- is he popular
- is his facebook wall dead or popular
- is his job good
- does he have 5 likes under each photo or 50
- is he handsome, are his pics good?
- is he in top 10% or top 20%?

while men attitude:
- is she not fat?
- is she not below average in look (read, very ugly)?

whenever i hear of dating app i see this scenario in my head and its sad
 

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Facebook had a dating a service a while back. I think it was called Hot or Not. A lot of underage girls were using it back then since you only had to be 16 to join.

That's probably the reason why they took it down.

I wouldn't doubt they know how to make another one. I actually liked Hot or Not, it was pretty well designed for its time.
 
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