"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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Due to this Covid thing and the fact that I personally don't feel comfortable being out in public very much, I've resorted to Facebook as a way of meeting women. It's been about a month and so far not too bad. I'll start by sending a friend request to a cutie who comes up as someone I may know which is usually due to having friends in common. If she accepts I'll send her a message through FB Messenger about how she looks familiar, prob through our common friend, etc. and it usually results in a conversation. At some point I'll admit to them I don't resort to facebook to meet women however I do justify it with the Covid thing. Now I'm not on FB doing this daily as I have real life stuff to deal with but I've already gone on a date with one of them. She's about an HB7. Things went pretty well too however I dont see her as a longterm. In the meantime I've gotten 4 other females to accept my friend requests and going to rinse and repeat. It's not the best system as I have had some girls just not reply, to which I then delete. But it's a good alternative for me atleast to meet some women for now.

This also isn't like online dating nor do I approach it that way. I use it to "socialize". Best way to meet women is through common contacts in the real world and it can apply here. It makes them feel more comfortable knowing someone they know is also friends with you.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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